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I had an argument with an women, she was expressing her opinion as facts and accusing me of things i didn't do without even checking. When i proved her wrong about her accusations, she is saying why can't i respect others opinions and be forgiving instead of being so unforgiving. I told i won't unless she apologizes and expresses her opinions in respectful way instead of accusing. She started being very mean to me and accusing me more and this time involved other ppl in it. She says she have every right to accuse me bcuz i am not trustworthy even when i didn't do anything to break her trust, she don't even know me well, she keep plucking all my mistakes whenever i make any mistake to make me look like a bad person in front of others and ignoring all good things i do. She had history of many failed relationships and she admits it proudly saying it's bcuz she is independent which i don't think is a good reason behind failing in relationships.

I tried talking with her and resolving the conflict, she doesn't seem to understand at all. She seems to be only interested in pointing fingers.
You said this was online. Is this someone you have to be in contact with? If not, and you feel like you’ve done everything possible to improve the situation, I’d stop communicating with her.

Lol….. and btw, us women in America are perfectly capable of expressing rational, fact based opinions.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@OlderSometimesWiser she claims she is being logical and her opinions are facts even when she gets proven wrong red handed and don't have any good reason behind her opinions except that "she don't trust me"

yes, i believe not all american women r irrational. Some seem nice.
@sahi81 So cut contact. Why put up with someone like that? Especially online!
masterofyou · 70-79, M
You sure have a lot of problems fo a young woman..... I hope you find your way out of them......
UndeadSona · F
Why bother resolving conflict
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@sahi81 Making excuses only gives her license to keep her sense of self entitlement and abusing others going.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@NativePortlander1970 she have superiority complex by the way she talks. Idk what anyone gets from feeling superior. In heard in america some ppl dunno how to express their opinions and express them as reality like they r real/facts. I heard it from a guy from sweden who went to america and also some US men complaning about women making decisions based on emotions more. I don't think making choices based on emotions is a women thing, men too do that where i live, maybe in US they don't hold women accountable for their choices.
@sahi81 It's not just women, it's everyone now.

 
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