Thanks😳@trackboy

@Strongtea now you will have fun watching the screen actors guild awards. 🎥

Ok Thankyou 👍@Nevaeh0081

@Strongtea You're welcome. 🙏

@Strongtea It would be a sad thing to lose your friends over past misbehaviours.

You could try contacting the person you bullied and tell her you want to apologise. Ask to meet. Give her the chance to tell you in detail how she felt at the time, how it affected her relationships with others in that place, and how it affects her now. Tell her you're incredibly sorry you bullied her, she did not deserve it, no one does, and that if you could have that time over you would not bully anyone. If she asks (but not otherwise because it should never sound like an excuse), tell her why you did it. Go deep. Be honest about what was happening for you in your background and inside you.

Then you could try contacting the friend you think least judgemental, tell him/her you feel deep regret and sadness about your past bullying and that you'd like to meet to talk about it. Tell him or her about the bullying, what you did, why you did it, and how you feel about it now. Tell her/him that you've apologised to the victim and that you've learned from your mistakes and would never bully anyone else. Say you'd hate to lose your friendships now because of such awful behaviour in the past.
He/she might forgive you on the spot, or might need to take some time to think about it. Either way, if this friend forgives you, then it's likely the others will too.

Everyone makes mistakes. If we have a conscience it's natural to feel shame, regret and remorse. This is also how we learn to become a better person. Healthy shame says, "I did something harmful": toxic shame says, "I am a bad person". Attitudes, thoughts, emotions and behaviours can change. Our past is past. It's who we are now that counts.

And I hope you find the courage to face your friends. The friendships could become deeper and richer if together you can get through this issue.

I hope this has helped.

That is a massive help, thankyou so much!!!@hartfire

@Strongtea You're welcome.
And thank you for your feedback.
I feel very happy that I could help.

@xbandoleerx True. But lets not be do harsh. I think he wants to fix things.

@Nevaeh0081 ... but how about the other victims of bullying that have taken their own lives to due to being bullied, those DEAD victims can't confront the bully, years down the line

@Nevaeh0081 I don’t think so he even thought about it. Had it been so he would have approached him instead of otherwise. And when he was confronted, he didn’t have the courtesy to apologize.
I think he is getting what he deserved. I hope he learns to behave.

@Strongtea That's why I likened it that way. A caught criminal is more concerned for their own welfare.

Oh 😳@Emjay

@Strongtea You're beginning to understand. 🤗

Gee, thanks🙁@deadgerbil

@Strongtea you have literally no room to cry about it

Yes, you’re right@Wallflow3r

😳@BigGuy2

@Strongtea count yourself lucky, i've just recently heard that a victim of schoolbullying had stabbed his bully when the school didn't do anything about it ... that should happen to ALL bullies

Oh my gosh! At least that didn’t happen to me. I was scared though@BigGuy2