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Middle School Boy Strangled by Female Classmate on School Bus… School Refuses to Expel Attacker



100 Percent Fed Up reports – The mother of a middle school boy is speaking out after her son was choked out on a school bus by a much larger female student, and the school refused to handle the situation appropriately.

On January 23, Taylor Brock’s son was on a school bus when a female student came over and assaulted him, putting her hand around his neck and strangling him. The incident was captured on video – as most things are nowadays.

Fort Belvoir, Va.: Taylor Brock has posted video of her son being choked on a school bus by a much larger female student on Jan. 23. She’s sharing the video now because she says @W_WhitmanMS Middle School in Alexandria has been inadequate in their response.https://t.co/M7xLE3z5rN pic.twitter.com/UzhZ6pYODn

After her son’s school, Walt Whitman Middle School in Virginia, failed to take proper disciplinary action against the assailant; Brock decided to share the video and post her story for everyone to see.

She posted the story to her website, saying that she “didn’t truly understand how bad” the bullying was that her son experienced at school until her son came home crying with red marks on his neck.

Brock went straight to the school with the video and pictures of her son’s neck, hopeful that the school would expel the assailant. However, she was horrified to learn that the girl returned to school after only a brief suspension.

The mother also went to the courthouse and got a two-week protection order for her son that said the girl had to remain at least 50 feet away from her son at all times. She gave this order to the school, yet she found out that the girl still passes by her son in the hallway and has intentionally sat behind him at lunch despite knowing there was a protection order in place.

Neither the girl nor the school seems to be taking the court order seriously.

“The school’s reaction to my son being assaulted and strangled is a perfect example of how careless the school is towards acts of violence,” wrote Brock.

After Brock began speaking out about the bullying incident, other parents at the school reached out to her, saying that their own children have suffered from bullying, but the school has done nothing to stop it.

Brock also found out that the girl who assaulted her son is known for bullying at the middle school but mostly bullies her son because “he is an easy target as he is one of the shortest and skinniest children in his grade.”

The next action Brock took to protect her son was to get a two-year protection order. When she presented the evidence to the judge, he asked if the girl still attended the school. When Brock said she did, the judge was very confused and questioned why the school didn’t take further action, given the severity of the offense.

“The school has video of a crime and a protection order, and they still only believed that suspension was enough to keep my child safe,” said Brock.

According to Virginia law, schools must notify essential staff once there is a protective order.

A guidance from the Virginia Department of Education says although schools are not legally responsible for enforcing a court order, safety should still be a priority. Officials can develop a safety plan, principals can collaborate with a parent, and a team can determine steps if the order is violated.

Fairfax County Public Schools acknowledged the incident and released this statement:

“The school administration handled the situation in line with the student discipline manual (FCPS Student Rights and Responsibilities),” an FCPS spokesperson said. “We are unable to share further information due to federal privacy laws.”

Brock said VDOE has since reached out to her about the incident.

She plans on moving her son to another school as he continues to seek therapy.

[b][i]Has the whole world gone crazy? How can this stand?[/i][/b]
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
5-10 years from now if/when he finally snaps, shows up and shoots everyone that wronged him, they'll all be scratching their heads like "how could this possibly happen?"
Confined · 56-60, M
Why has this girl not been arrested and charged with assault?
Budwick · 70-79, M
@Confined Exactly!
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@Confined Would that change her behaviour in the long run? Or just force her into closer association with others of a similar mind? Perhaps it is the only thing that can be done now but surely an earlier intervention would have stood a better chance of turning her around.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
I can see that expulsion of the bully would help this particular victim, at least while they are on the school bus and in the school grounds, but it does nothing to alter the behaviour of the bully.

In a much less serious incident in a school not far from where I live (in Norway) the two bullies had to attend a discussion with the rector (headmaster, principal) after school every day for a month. The point being to attempt, in the first instance, to persuade the bully of the error of their ways and to change them. The school can, and does, still expel those who can't be persuaded. But the success rate is actually quite high. However this is part of a thorough anti-bullying campaign and system, not just a one off ad hoc arrangement. All students are informed not only of their rights regarding bullying but also their responsibilities when the see it happening or hear of it.
Budwick · 70-79, M
@ninalanyon Punishment of bullies and criminals is not real popular in the USA these days.
Well, unless the bully or criminal is white,
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@Budwick Punishment might well be all that can be done in that particular case. What is needed is to try to prevent as many such cases as possible by earlier intervention and the creation of a better society in schools. The system that is used in many Norwegian schools is supported by an organization called MOT, which means courage in Norwegian. See https://www.mot.no, and in English https://mot.global/
The idea is for everyone, not just those who are being bullied, to stand up to bullies and cliques. Summed up in the slogan:
[quote]
MOT til å leve
MOT til å bry seg
MOT til å si nei
[/quote]
In English:
[quote]
Courage to live
Courage to care
Courage to say no
[/quote]
There’s always someone bigger and badder. And she will eventually learn that.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Hopefully she gets her ass kicked
minxy · 46-50, F
Oh, choked.
With the use of the word strangle, I thought she killed him.
Didn't make sense she could kill and get off that easily.

Given how the school system handled a situation I was involved in back in the early 90's, this doesn't surprise me.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
If I were the mom, I would take the bully, the school and the entire school board to court and suit them for everything they've got. I would also go to the DA and file assault charges.
graphite · 61-69, M
More of that male privilege again. Surprised the police didn't show up and put the boy in handcuffs.
Classmate? She looks big enough to be Stacey Abram's body guard.
What explains this behaviour
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Been this way for a long long time. I'm thinking whipping boy punching bag type deal.
SW-User
Yes, the whole world has gone crazy... pretty much!

 
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