have you ever bullied anyone? and if so, how do you feel about it now and if you could travel back in time to make ammends, would you?
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I was bullied so much growing up and I know how awful it felt so I would never have been able to hurt someone’s feelings like that. In fact I was the one who always included everyone and especially if I saw someone who was alone I always invited them to join me and my friends. I still have that in me
YescaLillian · 22-25, F
YescaLillian · 22-25, F
@Jenny1234 because I live with no regrets.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@YescaLillian I guess you have no conscious awareness
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Harassing would be a more fitting word. It wasn't out of hate, it was out of excessive interest and not knowing the limits and boundaries as a stupid 11 year old. It feels awkward and totally weird to think about it. I wouldn't travel back in time but if I met these guys now I would apologize. 😅
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
I bullied my little sister when we were in kindergarten. I just really want to take it back now. I added to her childhood trauma. None of us had it easy. I should have known and acted better.
JustNik · 51-55, F
Ah no. I had a bully once for a time. Thought there must be something wrong with her. Some people just make you glad you’re not them.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yes I was a bully. I think about it quite a lot but have mixed feelings about whether I’d make amends if I’m honest.
alan20 · M
Never been a bully
OogieBoogie · F
bijouxbroussard · F
@OogieBoogie You we’re a bully once ? That’s surprising. 🙁
OogieBoogie · F
@bijouxbroussard No. I mean ,when i see someone else bullying a person , i step in and give them their own medicine .
I hate bullies with a vengeance . Always have. And if i see them harassing , demeaning and abusing others , i have no issue stepping in, grabbing their attention, and serving them back what they give.
I did it at school , ive done it in superrmarkets , ive done it to defend friends and random people being picked upon .
Bullies are just deflectors and manipulators ....and hurtful people .
They do it to puff their ego by making others seem small. I hate it .
I have no problem with turning them to attack me instead. Ive dealt with enough of them , to see them for what they are: people with sociopathic traits .
So , im not a bully by default. I suppose i AM a bully by ethical choice .
To get them off their victim and onto me.
I only bully bullies .
I hate bullies with a vengeance . Always have. And if i see them harassing , demeaning and abusing others , i have no issue stepping in, grabbing their attention, and serving them back what they give.
I did it at school , ive done it in superrmarkets , ive done it to defend friends and random people being picked upon .
Bullies are just deflectors and manipulators ....and hurtful people .
They do it to puff their ego by making others seem small. I hate it .
I have no problem with turning them to attack me instead. Ive dealt with enough of them , to see them for what they are: people with sociopathic traits .
So , im not a bully by default. I suppose i AM a bully by ethical choice .
To get them off their victim and onto me.
I only bully bullies .
bijouxbroussard · F
@OogieBoogie Ah. That I understand.
bijouxbroussard · F
I never have. I was the target of bullies almost from the beginning and I hated them. I never wanted to make anyone else feel like that. When I was older and capable, I stopped some bullies from bothering others.