masterofyou · 70-79, M
You really should go on the date, i wish you the best....
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@masterofyou Why? I'd constantly feel not good enough the entire time.
masterofyou · 70-79, M
@IAmNothing Well you will be all alone for the rest of your life and i really don't think you will like that either.... People are trying to help you on here.... And you are Someone ... Not a nothing....🙂
Coralmist · 41-45, F
You are not your body. You are MUCH more than that, period. You are good enough, period.🪻
I rarely ever date because I feel there's no way I'm enough as well. I have chronic anxiety and PTSD, so even though a guy might see me bubbly, kind, laughing. That's on a good day, but I get petrified of how they'll view me during an anxiety attack. Pity me, think I'm weird, and want to start looking for someone else. I tear up even thinking about it so I never date. But when OTHERS say they are not enough, I get mad! No way someone is not enough.. including you!!!!! But it's very difficult myself feeling it. Maybe you can text him to say not now, but you will still consider it sometime🌸
I rarely ever date because I feel there's no way I'm enough as well. I have chronic anxiety and PTSD, so even though a guy might see me bubbly, kind, laughing. That's on a good day, but I get petrified of how they'll view me during an anxiety attack. Pity me, think I'm weird, and want to start looking for someone else. I tear up even thinking about it so I never date. But when OTHERS say they are not enough, I get mad! No way someone is not enough.. including you!!!!! But it's very difficult myself feeling it. Maybe you can text him to say not now, but you will still consider it sometime🌸
dale74 · M
I would send this on a private message but I sent you a private message a while back and you never replied. Most men out there for them to ask you out they truly would like to go out with you. Most men out there have been used and dumped multiple times. You say that you're scared her minister of even asking a woman out it can be insinuated as harassment or any number of other innuendos. Don't look at it as a date tell him you just want to go out have a good time and see where it goes from there. Good luck
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@dale74 if you sent a message it might be in that other inbox i don't usually check. Ill check. I just don't want to go because due to my height it masks how fat i actually am. Theres lumps and bumps not noticeable as much in photos as it is in real life. I just know im not good enough
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Pherick · 41-45, M
:( I am sorry to hear you did this.
come2gether · 46-50, M
@IAmNothing face your fears and go on a date. That's what you do. You can't complain if you sabotage yourself
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@come2gether I don't want to sit there anxious constantly not feeling good enough the entire time.
come2gether · 46-50, M
@IAmNothing that's silly, he asked you out. It's all on him
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YoMomma · 41-45
Oh well at least you will be safe? Sigh
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