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Letting go

Aged about 18-20 I was this lonely boy who loved Barbra Streisand. So I collected all the stuff I could find about her, meaning many years later I own over thirty books about her and other stuff besides. The thing is, it is all in a box and never looked at anymore. I no longer cherish this stuff. Idealistically I would put the lot of EbAY and watch it fly away and receive some cash. But I know I am never going to do that- I don't want to be working out the postage costs for a start. Last September I asked the vet to euthanise my beloved elderly cat, despite the vet offering a treatment plan. How come I let go of my bestie so easily yet this dusty pile of books is making me anxious? Should I just do it , take them to a charity store? Have you collected things and later found them a burden? I shall never collect vast amounts of things again.
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SnailTeeth · 36-40, M
They're not connected.
Getting rid of your stuff, won't relieve any pain for your stuff.
You didn't get rid of your friend, you mercifully did what most people couldn't, and avoided the vet bleeding you dry.
There's nothing wrong with having a couple boxes of junk, it reminds us of where we came from. Maybe one day, you'll feel like opening it, looking through it. Maybe just not right now.
JamieYahoo · M
@SnailTeeth Yeah, that is a thoughtful answer, Thank you.
SnailTeeth · 36-40, M
@JamieYahoo It can't rain all the time. I hope you find brighter days soon.