Answer me this......

@SW-User Are they really so different?

@Silentpleasure absolutely

@SW-User I think the core wants and needs are the same.....we just go about it different ways.

@Silentpleasure nah, the core wants and needs are based on our individual experiences, the people around us from birth that help us develop our sense of the world and the gaps/bits missing that we crave.

@SW-User Nature vs nurture?

@Silentpleasure both shape us but means our world is uniquely ours

@SW-User But even snow flakes can be the same.

@Silentpleasure what does that have to do with anything?

@SW-User You look so deeply to make everyone seem so different when in reality we just want to be accepted for who we are and loved. Not so different in my opinion

@Silentpleasure that’s your opinion, my experience tells me otherwise

@SW-User Ditto :D

@Silentpleasure you’re saying the rape victim, the homeless teen, the orphan, the wealthy princess, the refugee, the cancer patient, the serial killer and the Olympic champion all want the same things and live in the same world?

@SW-User And you're saying there is not a possibility that all those people couldn't have common goals, wants, or needs?

@Silentpleasure I didn’t say that at all, of course they can have things in common. I simply said their experience of the world is unique

@SW-User I agree they can have vastly different experience but given a big enough sample size you find things are not as different as things may seem.

@Silentpleasure I’m not sure why you feel the need to argue or disagree. You asked a question for people’s opinions and I have given me mine.

@SW-User Its just a conversation. I didn't think we were arguing. You are entitled to your opinion but that doesn't mean I can't question it either. I have no ill will or negative feelings toward you and find your position on the topic rather interesting.