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Justafantasy · M
Being unnoticeable and not terribly interested in feeling like part of the group.
A lifetime of practice.
A lifetime of practice.
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
@Justafantasy I seem to be naturally gifted.....no practice needed lol
Justafantasy · M
@Silentpleasure I've been practicing since I was a child "children are to be seen and not heard". Doesn't seem evil
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
@Justafantasy Gotta love how our parents mistakes leave a lasting impression
Justafantasy · M
@Silentpleasure I got told I'm an adult and need to take responsibility for myself by someone who's blamed her kid for everything that's ever gone wrong
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
@Justafantasy Narcissistic mother as well huh?
Justafantasy · M
@Silentpleasure and her husband and family did well to train her "the stepson is always to blame"
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
@Justafantasy Easy target with no one to back them up
Justafantasy · M
@Silentpleasure when you live your life just letting the blame be water off a duck's back it's all fine, until it's not.
But yeah, I'm an adult now. If you don't want to be part of my life, you don't have my back and you aren't respectful of me I really don't need you in my life.
Makes a small social circle much smaller.
But yeah, I'm an adult now. If you don't want to be part of my life, you don't have my back and you aren't respectful of me I really don't need you in my life.
Makes a small social circle much smaller.
Silentpleasure · 31-35, F
@Justafantasy No need to impress anyone or fight to be around those who couldn't care less if you are around. Hard lesson to learn but a very valuable one.