Why do women do what they do.
I have met a couple of women in the past year. Ones that I can physically see in Dallas Texas. One I became friends with at The Bridge Homeless Shelter. I even got the courage to ask her if she thinks I would make a good boyfriend. Her response was for some other woman cause we have differences. So I deleted her contact in my phone cause she hardly answers her text messages anyway.
Another woman I met the day I moved into my apartment. She introduced herself an showed where the patio was for the smokers. I don't smoke so I kind of thought that wasn't necessary. We would get into conversations where she would talk for 30 minutes about sob stories. I didn't care to listen to them but i'm not like other people. I would stand there an listen sometimes I would say something an she would wave her arms in the air. Trying to tell me to shut up an listen to her. Finally she had enough of me one day an asked me come into her apartment so we can have some privacy. She told me about the way I act an my body language is rude. So she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. Which was "no skin off my back" cause I didn't want her as a friend anyway in the first place. I again blocked her contact in my phone. One evening I was going to get on the elevator. She came around the corner an saw me an said "SHIT" out loud. Walked back to her apartment to wait till I got downstairs.
What have I done to deserve this kind of attitude from women. Yes I want to be with a woman for the rest of my life. Sometimes when I talk to anyone they snap back at me. So I say "oh sorry am I bothering you" cause I take it personally. Sometimes I just wish people would stop trying to wedge themselves into my life. I like talking to people about certain things & like to make people laugh.
Another woman I met the day I moved into my apartment. She introduced herself an showed where the patio was for the smokers. I don't smoke so I kind of thought that wasn't necessary. We would get into conversations where she would talk for 30 minutes about sob stories. I didn't care to listen to them but i'm not like other people. I would stand there an listen sometimes I would say something an she would wave her arms in the air. Trying to tell me to shut up an listen to her. Finally she had enough of me one day an asked me come into her apartment so we can have some privacy. She told me about the way I act an my body language is rude. So she told me she didn't want to talk to me anymore. Which was "no skin off my back" cause I didn't want her as a friend anyway in the first place. I again blocked her contact in my phone. One evening I was going to get on the elevator. She came around the corner an saw me an said "SHIT" out loud. Walked back to her apartment to wait till I got downstairs.
What have I done to deserve this kind of attitude from women. Yes I want to be with a woman for the rest of my life. Sometimes when I talk to anyone they snap back at me. So I say "oh sorry am I bothering you" cause I take it personally. Sometimes I just wish people would stop trying to wedge themselves into my life. I like talking to people about certain things & like to make people laugh.
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