Fitting in the Deep South

Im down here in the deep south for work, and let me tell you, it's been quite the experience. As someone who works remotely and was mainly hired for technical programming, I couldn't help but feel like I stick out like a sore thumb in this environment.

While my colleagues gush about their expensive purses and share their latest crafting projects, I find myself sitting in the corner, struggling to relate. It's not that I'm dismissive of their interests; it's just that my own interests and background are quite different.

I've always been more of an urban soul, and here, I feel like I'm in a different world altogether. Conversations often revolve around topics that don't align with my experiences, and many of the things I talk about, especially in the technical realm, tend to go over people's heads.

It's not about fitting into a certain mold or conforming to stereotypes; it's about wanting to connect on a deeper level with my coworkers, build close relationships, and feel like I belong. But the truth is, it's been a challenge.

In a way, I think it's a reminder of the beauty of diversity, even within a single workplace. Our differences, our unique backgrounds and interests, should be celebrated, not alienated. And while it's been tough, I'm determined to find common ground and build bridges, no matter how urban or rural, how technical or crafty we may be