assemblingaknob · 31-35, F
U need to focus on the friendship not on comparisons.
My best friend and I almost fell apart because of this. Because he's very social and I would keep wondering why other people are so drawn towards him and not to me. I'm also mostly disliked by the people that really vibe with him. And that would cause fights between us as I couldn't understand why I wasn't as likeable as him.
But since I've started being more conscious about our bond, I don't bother external factors anymore. We don't fight because of other people. Why should the actions of other people ruin your friendship????
My best friend and I almost fell apart because of this. Because he's very social and I would keep wondering why other people are so drawn towards him and not to me. I'm also mostly disliked by the people that really vibe with him. And that would cause fights between us as I couldn't understand why I wasn't as likeable as him.
But since I've started being more conscious about our bond, I don't bother external factors anymore. We don't fight because of other people. Why should the actions of other people ruin your friendship????
@assemblingaknob thank you so much!! You're right, I should! I'm just too blind by my insecurities that there's more to it that I should be thankful for, I can't afford to lose her. I have to focus on doing my best than focusing on people and pleasing them that may cause the ruining of our friendship. I'm proud of her accomplishments and she deserve the recognition she gets and I deserve it too but that's not important as long as I'm doing my best. Thank you again, you made me realize that the friendship is more important than pleasing other people and being insecure because she gets the things I want. Thank youu🫶🏻🫶🏻