Well to deal with NAMALT counter arguments ahead of schedule: no, but plenty of us are "like that' enough that it's still worthy of discussion so I'm not trying to shut that one down like go ahead please proceed but from observation not much happening here.
I will say this I enjoyed our chat the other day although I went a bit overboard on the industrial links
But that's the biggest difference between those people and myself. I care if people feel safe around me. They never did though.
Given that history is rife with examples of men who rape and murder women I'm plenty concerned myself that they feel safe around me, I mean Sue me I'm guilty of wanting more female companions than the ones I already have #polyam sins lol.
But it's never done me any favors like 0 whatsoever to make women feel unsafe in fact all it ever lead to for me and how it worked out was like id meet girl we'd become fast friends very quickly and maybe at some point i'd realize it was a bit of a crush and I mean I'm brave so I always come clean about that stuff and instead of a normal response instead they just ghost and it's like we all know why this shit is happening it's not like a huge gigantic mystery right? Some people are understandably afraid of conflict given the History of men abusing women and not handling rejection well, so given that it can minimize risk to just ghost.
I Realize I'm letting them off the hook by saying this =/ like I need to do more to ensure women know I'm not going to freak out if they disappoint me by not being everything I want from them.
