is it normal for my dad to make comments on my body?

im currently in a summer house and it has a pool.
yesterday, when i went to the pool wearing a bikini my dad made some comments on it afterward. he said that its been a while since he saw my body and that boys would stare at my me like i was a piece of meat.
he said i had a very nice body, and a pretty ass.
im not sure if this is him trying to reassure me or not.
either way it made me feel sad and disgusted. it made me feel very uncomfortable. i dont know what to do or what to think

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ABCDEF7 · M

Next time, tell him you feel safe when he is around because you know your dad is here to protect you.

tojiussy · F

@ABCDEF7 the thing is i dont feel safe when hes around. i feel like i cant wear what i want to without him commenting on my body.
but i love him, and i dont want to make any accusations, and things like that.

ABCDEF7 · M

@tojiussy I understand that you don't feel comfortable when he is around. I asked you to say that, so that he understands that you expect him to protect you and not comment on your body.

Can you choose to not live with him?

Take care..

tojiussy · F

@ABCDEF7 your right. ty for helping me realize some stuff. and no, for now i cant choose to not live with him.

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