Omg I would change my name, change my people pleasing ways, treat it as my death but rebirth. I would stop being the person I thought others want me to be and start finding out who i really am. I am a 60s scoop survivor who had my name change three times. At birth at adoption at failed marriage of 4 days. A marriage of conviction only. Theonly ones i would tell are my 3 children.who are in their own worlds