Some people think you'd always be there for them. Hence why you disappear.

We're all guilty of this at times,BIG YELLOW TAXI syndrome
Don't it always seem to go
That you don't know what you got 'til it's gone😞

you can just say whats wrong..see what develops. Some never learn but🤷‍♀️

True story, especially after years and years of trying to see them.