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I Keep My Ep Account A Secret

The problem is when you become close to someone you meet on one of these sites, then real world and secret world get all mixed up :O
Fallflower · 46-50, F
I've opened my heart before but probably not going to happen again here. And people in my life don't need to know about my presence here either. ;)
@Fallflower: To each his/her own time.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Fallflower isn't that the whole idea here on SW? You can be as straight or as naughty as you want. You can spill your worries and problems and hope someone here will be the spark to help you.
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
@Fallflower I know what you mean. I never knew people had some of the same thoughts I do until I came here.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Often that happens yes.. but not always.. some people turn out to be really good in real life too..
Fallflower · 46-50, F
there are some good people on here for sure. @Adaydreambeliever
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Fallflower I hope I am in that category.
MrEMann · 51-55, M
I've met some really awesome people online. I've met some truly dysfunctional people the conventional way. When it comes down to it, people are people. And, online is the real world. Just because some abuse the anonymity of an online profile does not mean they are any different than others. How many of us haven't been completely decieved by someone from "real life"?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@MrEMann I mostly agree with you except that online is the real world. Yes we’re real people and often here we get to see more deeply into someone’s heart than we would in real life. But we also only see what they want us to see. And we show only what we want them to see. Things that, in person, are immediately evident. This has its merits of course.
MrEMann · 51-55, M
Well, I totally disagree with you! Noooo, juuust kidding! I just see too many people being treated less than human because others disconnect from their humanity while behind a computer screen. They need to realize there are real people with very real feelings and emotions on the otger side of the screen. Online is the real world. It's just being viewed thru a filter.
SW-User
If the trust is there, then the two worlds won't get mixed up because there is no need for secrets with the person you connected with here.
SW-User
@Fallflower I can imagine after hearing some horror stories here from various woman, guarded is good
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@SW-User yeah, you never know who you’re really talking to
SW-User
@Fallflower even the verified ones..lol
I understand what you are saying. Do be cautious! They don't blend well. And sometimes lines blur a bit too much. But do have fun. And open your precious heart.
brian29715 · 46-50, M
Very true. Those walls that keep things separate crash down and then what?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
SW-User
It is quite possible to get wrapped up in this site and loose track of the real world
AlitaLe001 · 22-25, F
I never had that problem but sorry to hear that.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@AlitaLe001 it’s all good 😏
djjohnson · 41-45, M
you can never truly separate the two. Thoughts and feeling you have while on here will influence how you act in RL in some way. But there is nothing wrong with that normally.
Just make sure you don't call your RL lover by the name of your SW friend by mistake. HAHA!
Fallflower · 46-50, F
goodguy007 · 41-45, M
And invariably, it does happen. The becoming close as well as wanting to mix the real with the secret world.
Did you ever meet anyone from this world in real?
goodguy007 · 41-45, M
@Fallflower that's nice! Your are lucky. How was meeting in real? Did it feel the same as you guys talked about?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@goodguy007 well no it didn’t feel the same - not better or worse but reality and physical presence couldn’t possibly match up to what you have developed in your minds. Even if you try your very best not to have expectations... you still do. Again, not good or bad, just different. It was a wonderful experience and I’m glad I did it.
goodguy007 · 41-45, M
@Fallflower still happy for you.
Glad you had that experience 😊
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
this place is my secret
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
Why not just go with it. This is where I come to share my weird experiences and fantasies. Find people with similar experiences and desires.if it comes to something I just go with it.
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
Some times its nice to have that some one that understands when everyone else don't. This is the easiest place to find that.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Rocknrod so true
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
@Fallflower nice profile BTW.
masterofyou · 70-79, M
Hmmmm I miss that place I was a volunteer there but with all the bratty kids on there and implications of a murder I understand why the place shut down..
Easygoing1 · 61-69, M
Yes life can be a series of twist and turns . It is good to have a few secrets . The problem arises when they cross each other
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Fight that! It can only cause troubles.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Fallflower this is fantasy, maybe I am dense, how can you hurt anyone?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@samueltyler2 you are probably not dense but relationships do form online sometimes.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Fallflower but they are fantasy relationships. If your real world relationships are solid, a little fantasy can't hurt.
Driver2 · M
I know exactly what you mean

I was on ep also

And the worlds do collide
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Driver2 sometimes you just click with someone ya know?
Driver2 · M
@Fallflower oh I know I more than clicked
Cowboybob · M
Hahaha! You don’t want the worlds to collide! Bad things happen!
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Cowboybob ya gotta keep em separated
Cowboybob · M
@Fallflower nice Offspring reference
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
I've been closed to a few,,,,,
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Fallflower thanks for the correction,close,,,,,but yes,
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Bluesky52 one letter completely changes the meaning ☺️
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
@Fallflower yeah i seen that,,,,,but true,
SW-User
That's true. I don't how good the two worlds can mix
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@SW-User they don't seem to mix well for me. I did meet some great people though and learned a lot so it's all good.
SW-User
@Fallflower good for you dear
SW-User
It's all about building trust, once trust is there, you will know if you can open up more
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
That could be dangerous.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Fallflower has it ever happened to you?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@samueltyler2 No... I’ve never had a real relationship with anyone on here.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@Fallflower by definition, nothing on SW is real.
jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M
I have yet to experince it. EP closed within couple of months me joining.
SW-User
Thank goodness this has never happened to me that I became close to someone. 😄
jackson55 · M
Best to keep the fantasy world seperate from the real one.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@jackson55 will do!
har7070 · 51-55, M
Sometimes the duality becomes too intense emotionally :-)
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
No they don’t. Nothing here matters.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
jlsdjfhasdljfhasdfa · 41-45, M
@Keepitsimple Damn😮
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
I know I have to not repeat things I see here to my wife lol
SW-User
Lol.... well... don't mix them up!... 😄
luvin2flirt · 61-69, M
I know what you mean... 🤗
Yes, you're right
Ferrari21 · 31-35, M
I’m the exact same way.
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
I've been close to a few,
I can understand that
JavaJoe · 51-55, M
Been there, done that. ✅
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
You at are not alone!
melbeacher · 56-60, M
Indeed they can.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Yaz69 · 36-40, M
jaymic64 · M
That is so true.
Montanaman · M
👍🤗🥰😔🤫
Fallflower · 46-50, F
😏👊@Montanaman
Montanaman · M
@Fallflower 😏👊
Lancer681 · 51-55, M
I tried to meet up with a few people it never worked out, but it was great sharing our time on-linr
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Lancer681: I've had the same experience.
navigatorTR · 41-45, M
who is the person that you want to hide ur account from :) ?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@navigatorTR I don’t share it with anyone in my real life.
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
@Fallflower I don't either.
Rocknrod · 61-69, M
If you both enjoy the same thing it shouldn't matter.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Rocknrod you have a point
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har7070 · 51-55, M
Unfortunately it's true :-)
Coppercoil · M
Define close?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Coppercoil Like you talk to them all the time?
Coppercoil · M
@Fallflower so not physically in rl?
Fallflower · 46-50, F
@Shayama Yeah... I think this is one of those groups that got transferred over or something? No idea really.
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Fallflower · 46-50, F
In a good or bad way?@IamBack
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Fallflower · 46-50, F
@IamBack haha it’s all good, it was an oldie but a goodie
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Rocknrod · 61-69, M
@IamBack 🤣

 
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