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Is it ok to ask the person who rejected you why they did?

CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
Yes, but you and that person will not be happy with the conversation that ensues.
IDontWant2BeLoved · 26-30, F
Yeah if you need that closure...i would even tho i probably won't like what they have to say lol..maybe
Razoreye001 · 31-35, M
That's how I feel but, I was told your not supposed to so I apologized for asking.
IDontWant2BeLoved · 26-30, F
Fuck that. Do what you wanna do. Its up to that perosn to answer or not. If they don't then move on@Razoreye001:
Fernie · F
You sure have the right to ask...just be sure you can handle the answer
Razoreye001 · 31-35, M
Well the person I like didn't give me a straight answer when I asked that, so I asked a friend what they thought and they said you shouldn't ask that question. So I sent the girl an apology message.
Only if you're able to take the truth
BatRinseRepeat · 31-35, F
Its okay - But probably not healthy.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
It just makes a bad situation worse. They will say something negative that is just their opinion and make no more difference to your life then what you already know about them. That they don't want you. So why put yourself through the drama? Just move on.
girlscumfirst · 51-55, M
no, because they will never tell the truth.
Syktur · 26-30, M
I suppose it depends on how you ask.
Well. Either they rejected you because they think it's for your own good and they aren't good for you or they don't like you and hearing the details about why they don't like you might actually hurt your feelings further and might not be something you want to hear details on. Idk
SW-User
it's not you its me
Silverfox420 · 36-40, F
ForeverOnMyGuard · 22-25, F
I usually do...Especially if it's them breaking up with me. I feel that I have a right to know. Every time a boy has broken up with me, I've asked. Even if I didn't like the answer or thought it was a stupid reason, I'm glad I did
SW-User
Does it really matter though?🤔
Razoreye001 · 31-35, M
It matters to me because if I'm just a friend I want to gradually become the person they want. The best way to do that is to know what they don't like about me.
SW-User
@Razoreye001: I think it's a far fetched idea but plausible 🤔 If a girl put you into the friendzone,it's not easy to get out.You might put all your effort into this,one day a guy walks into the scene and sweep her off her feet in minutes..some things can't be forced.
Exit interviews are always an aid for the next move.
SW-User
No. They were either right to do so or an idiot.
Xena1234 · 51-55, F
Sure, if you are weak.
Fernie · F
WHAT? THAT is CRAZY talk
JupiterDreams · 31-35
I think it's okay.

 
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