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How can I tell the person that has a Crush on me that I'm not interested right now?

I know this can be a Difficult question to answer but I really don't know how to. Yes, it is the same girl that I recently talked about but I don't want to hurt her feelings either. I just don't know how to tell the right words to tell her. It has indeed put me into a weird and awkward situation. Hence why I am asking this question.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
Bring a conversation round to dating and relationships and say you've decided for now that you're not even going to put yourself out there because it's just not the right time for you..
Failing that be direct and say look I'm very flattered that you consider me in that way but I'm reAlly not interested in any kind of relationship right now..
Simply say. I'm flattered by your attention. But right now , my focus has to be elsewhere. I hope you can accept that and move forward.
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]tell her your emotionally bankrupt and would eventually hurt her. So you're not interested in any kind of relationship at the moment. Make sure she understand ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. Some chicks will wait around if they see a glimmer of hope.[/c]
Anything you say is going to sting but not as bad as being strung along with any kind of hope from not being clear.. if you try to be nice about it then it might send mixed signals. Just be blunt, its kinder in the long term.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
When I told my crush I liked him, all he responded was "I don't feel the same way sorry". It was completely fine with me and we're still friends. Depends how sensitive she is also.
NationalSocialist · 18-21, M
Why do you even care about her feelings when you're "not interested"?

Just tell her.
I dont think you should say anything unless he or she makes a move on you.

 
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