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Why do all these middle aged men on here want to be friends with a girl half their age?

It's kinda weird.
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It's almost like they have a hidden agenda.

[c=#BF0080]Because they think you young girls are interested in their old asses.. it's common here.[/c]
calicuz · 51-55, M
@PinkRainbowBliss: They're on SW too?
@calicuz: [c=#BF0080]No, I meant how many dirty old men there are.. my daughter quit her job at the mall because she couldn't take it. I thought she was being silly.. but now I see what she's talking about.[/c]
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
Funny, and sad, because it's true..
FurryFace · 61-69, M
truth is most of us forget that we're Old Men now , lol
calicuz · 51-55, M
😆
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It's quite sickening and disturbing when you read a 50 year old commenting really weird on someone that's a minor. I don't know if they don't have daughters, or just don't know better. Sometimes I believe there should be a button to report crime. These creepers are one of the reasons why I don't want kids.
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I'm speaking about myself, not everyone when I said I wanted to isolate myself . Also, I don't get it why you are defending creeps and pedos. @Misty71:
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@ragingfire: thats because he is one.. people defend what they do.
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Blocking that person would help. Gonna do it now and may be a report as well. @theowl:
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
[c=#4C0073]Bunch of Dirty Old Men. To be fair some are just looking for a fresh perspective, but most are dirty old men.[/c]
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@PicturesOfABetterTomorrow: [c=#4C0073]You can look at it however, the majority of the time the younger party is being taken advantage of. If not the older Party is being financially drained. It's very rare to find a situation that doesn't fit the stereotypes.[/c]
@VioletRayne: I think that is an assumption. The scandals get the attention but I suspect the healthy relationships are the ones you don't hear about because they are "boring" and not news worthy. Also painting such relationships negatively is often done by outsiders with their own agenda which almost never has the best interest of either party in mind.
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@PicturesOfABetterTomorrow: [c=#4C0073]Like I said believe what you will. Everyone sees things differently. My personal experience is that it's usually a matter of the chick either has daddy issues or financial woes and she's using grandpa to fix her own short comings and grandpa is using her to feel like he's still got it.[/c]
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
Different people have different reasons. I have a few friends here who are younger. I'm also happily married and really just like talking to people from different walks of life.

However, there is a major problem with men bothering women on here with explicitly sexual messages, or trying to be 'friends' but with a sexual agenda. It's creepy, it's harassment, and I'd love to see it stop. This should be a fun place for everyone and that makes it a lot less fun.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Delusional dreams and they want more than a friendship. Most are looking for the benefits more than a friendship.
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
dirty old men, some get kicks out of it, they think young girls are into them
IntenseCookie · 26-30, F
Usually they're being gross. Some of them are pretty cool though
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Suffering from Dementia

Quite normal at that age
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[c=#7700B2]If you think about it, to a middle-aged man all girls in the 18-21 age group look as glamorous as movie stars. Wouldn't you try to be friends with gorgeous movie stars if you had the opportunity?[/c]
Miserablegitsometimes · 51-55, M
I think being friends is kind of weird, but just chatting is acceptable - I chat to loads in my local bar each week - we get on well. Well, they probably refer to me as the 'dirty old man' once I've gone lol
cheesyAF · 31-35, M
At first they want to be your friend. Then they start sexting.
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Don't get me wrong I have nothing against older men who just want to be your friend. It gets gross when they have alterior motives.
cheesyAF · 31-35, M
@beachgirlx: That's true, but I'm afraid you won't find a lot of them on SW. Not all of them are like this of course, but according to what I've read the majority is.
@beachgirlx: most every man you meet if hetro has Ulterior motive, the key is will they still be your friend atfter you have told them your not "going there" with them?"
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its common on social media they think since young girls are more hormonal that they might get something out of them.. its all about sex with them.
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EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
I can't speak for other men, but I have female friends as many as 13 years older and 44 years younger in the real world.

I often don't know the age of online friends, ever, as I typically never meet them in person. Of online friends I have actually met, the greatest age gap so far was 9 years younger.

I reply to anyone who PMs me on SW. I never ask women for pics who have never sent any. A few have sent at least one. Most send none, and that's OK since we will most likely never meet, anyway.

Some of the younger women on SW really need friends they can count on. My friendship never has any strings attached to it. My only expectation is that they never lie to me.

Even some of the women closer to my age or older need reliable friends.

As for dating, I have wanted a family for decades, so I seek women young enough to have children, and ideally old enough to have some wisdom to teach them along side me. I've given myself only 4 more years to have biological children of my own.
Well sometimes common interest is not dictated by age.
Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M
Maybe some find what you say to be interesting. I find myself talking with people who probably wouldn't look at me twice in RL. Sadly there are a bunch of creeps floating around as well...

Age in and of itself doesn't dictate whether someone has something interesting to say.

On the other hand, if someone twice your age or older wants to take you out on a date.....
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They think the gal is into an age gap relationship. 😆
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Lol
Transformedandevolved · 26-30, M
They probably wanted a daughter and never had one.
calicuz · 51-55, M
"The Force is strong in this one" 🤺
no it is not weird it is ordinary it is not strange it is predictable..
and it is because they would like to get close to some girls like that.
they keep at it because SOMETIMES they find a young girl that likes it that way
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
yeah. take it from the 100+ year old guy lol
@StrictLoving: so you disagree Jack? tell us your wisdome
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If you see it report it and take it further if necessary.
Vulnerable minors would be grateful for any help done to protect them from harm and people of ill intent. Chris Hansen is a great example
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Cause its normal they want to be friends with 18 19 20 year olds I'm friends with a girl on here half my age but shes legal of Course
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
half your age ain't legal, but yea. lol
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
because most young girls realize that guys their age are not equipped to satisfy them.

and the ones that haven't yet eventually will.
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@PinkRainbowBliss: 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣💀🙏🏾🙌🏾🤦🏾‍♀️ Oh my she said [b]crypt keeper[/b].....I can't breathe🤣
@VioletRayne: [c=#BF0080]LOL.. now you got me laughing about it. 😂[/c]
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@PinkRainbowBliss: can't agree with that, the maturity doesn't depend on the age, it depends on how experienced you are in the life, how rough your life is. In my country which is a developing nation people are way matured and experienced than most of the developed nations. so I would say it's okay for a older guy to go for a younger girl and vice versa as long as they don't cross the law.
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Even I don't get the logic when they start bringing sexual things up. It is so creepy..
in10RjFox · M
they don't get girls their age.. for they are with MEN.. iow: already taken.

it human tendency to aspire for newer vehicle.. don't you ?

would you like to watch an age old movie or one that's newly released ?
[c=#BF0080]Lmao!! That's about the stupidest reason I've heard. 😂😂[/c]
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and why would a young girl want an old broken down car?
Short term transportation needs when theyre strapped for cash
It's really annoying but I just ignore them
there are a few for who this is true as in "friends" and nothing more.. Most males alas seek "friendship" when they hope for something more.
There are "age different" relationships and they are hoping for one of those.
most male initiated contact has a alternative reason
Shadowstep · 26-30, M
I'm your age range tho..
Elegy · 46-50
David Cross making fun of delusional guys.

" You know, maybe I get ninety-nine no’s. That’s fine… slide it on, slide it on. Whatever.... But maybe that hundredth chick… likes to fuck on a pile of trash."

It's a numbers game.
Loneliness, mostly i think is why a lot of middle aged men are here in the first place.
@Misty71: [c=#BF0080]How weird. I honestly think they just like to stroke their egos by thinking a younger girl is interested in them.. but that's just my opinion.[/c]
@PinkRainbowBliss: it usually is a lot about the ego with men, for sure.
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@PinkRainbowBliss: My ego would have no issues if you'd simply tell me I'm pretty every now and then :(
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That's a natural thing. men attract to young, fertile, good looking women, women attract to rich, successful, tall muscular men despite the age.
Male lions eating the Cubs of other males is natural, too, though. But civilized humans don't live in a state of nature.
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@Misty71: Murdering own children, and attracting someone are completely different things. Beside it's not just men, but also women are after young individuals. Haven't you even heard about cougars? Young doesn't mean young like 16,17, I meant someone like around my age. so it's completely fine.
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Oh I wonder lol
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[c=#BF0080]Says the dude who has kindergarten friends and kisses their cheeks.[/c]
Possibility · 31-35, F
How do you expect their old cocks to function without a young vagina?
[c=#BF0080]That's what Viagra is for lol.[/c]
WeekendWarrior4 · 46-50, M
If you have to ask that question then you probably shouldn't be here!
coolnudist · 70-79, M
Makes them feel younger I guess! Then there are younger girls that like older men!
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Also girls between 18-21 here have weirdo names which make them vulnerable
calicuz · 51-55, M
Does anyone really have an age on the internet?
[c=#BF0080]Umm YES![/c]
calicuz · 51-55, M
@PinkRainbowBliss: You know I was just being sarcastic. 😋
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ashrock1990 · 31-35, M
Maybe cause your an attractive girl
StrictLoving · 56-60, M
wait a minute - are you saying that attractive girls [i]attract [/i]people ... !?
mathsman · 70-79, M
I prefer a girl a quarter of my age at the most
Stefanv · 56-60, M
I don't know it's very strange!😂😂😂
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absomething · 31-35, F
exactly for that reason!
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Just block and move on :)
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
Block them then...

 
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