I guess I have to accept that, I have not been successful in making connections. Maybe I am different but my intentions were never creepy. It could be

that I am sending wrong signals without being conscious about it? Have you experienced this? I don't use SW just to joke around, because long ago, I posted that it's a waste of time if you take it like that. I had actual interest on people and actually wanted to connect. I am not sure what's going on.

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booboo · M

people come here for different reasons...mine is to make a new friend or two, talk about things in my life, listen to others, kid around, have fun, and not take me or this life too seriously...

Dancmemomisme

I do agree . I have found it very difficult here to make any connections

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Dancmemomisme

@Stereoguy: I am the queen of blocking - every day

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TheWitness · 36-40, F

What specifically is the problem you are having? People aren't engaging? Because I was talking about that earlier today.

Aperson · M

It's mostly like a gap between us. Misunderstanding me and avoiding. I slowly stop trying to reach too..

TheWitness · 36-40, F

@Riemann: I find that people usually take things the wrong way on the internet. People seem much more defensive online, I really don't know why. But if you're having problems connecting, I promise it's not just you.

Aperson · M

@PrincessSerah: I am an open book. Not sure what'tough to trust.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Maybe it would help to put something on your profile "About Me." Interests, lifestyle, reasons for posting here...might help.

Aperson · M

Hey you
You are cool.

yellowstone

I found EP to be a much more friendly personal place as far as actually having communications and meaningful chats on the side. I miss my mailbox being very void here. I take being here seriously too but there are times it is very disappointing to just be here and not have those people excited to see you online and wanting to know how you're doing.

Aperson · M

It's not this place's fault.

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Aperson · M

@Umile18: I would just mind my business if this was only the case for a few..

Umile18

@Riemann: Not all people are worth it. Take your time. The good ones will appreciate you for you.

Don't take it too hard though. We can't help who likes or dislikes us. You sound like a great person. It's their loss.

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