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Peaceful · F
Because we are seen as a soft touch or easy mark. I am kind until I sense they are starting or trying to take advantage of me. So I've learned to set better boundaries. You can be kind and still say no. Besides that's being kind to you. You deserve kindness too :)
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wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
Can I message you? I did tho
Peaceful · F
@Seriousmonkey: haha! I will go look.
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
@Peaceful: heh!
LysanderFremont · 36-40, M
It is not that being kind makes you a weak person. However, knowing your boundaries and being able to say "hey, no. That is not going to happen" makes you stronger.
SW-User
Yes that is true
wallflowerguy · 26-30, M
Yeaa. Smart huh!
I know that.
I know that.
shadowplay · 22-25, M
@Seriousmonkey: because they are not like you and they probably grew up spoiled brats
SW-User
@Seriousmonkey: some kindness you have, lol
1961dave · 61-69, M
Because there are always people that are not kind looking to take advantage anywhere they can!
SW-User
Keep your self that way along with developing good judgement of people. There is saying "Always be caution of those, who you have help".
TheVampireGirl · F
Me too