A few weeks after I broke up with my girlfriend over our difference in beliefs 8 years ago she approached another Jehovah's witness in my congregation

She asked a few questions about our faith... I wonder what I would do if she somehow showed up with the same belief as mine one day. I believe I would accept her with open arms. We weren't perfect for each other back then, but I've matured a lot. I believe I could be a good husband to her.

How sad is this? Fantasizing about a girl I was with 8 years ago... I'm truly a sad being. <3

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midnightrose · F

I think it's a natural thing to reflect back on past relationships from time to time. Even more so when you may be feeling lonely or down on life.

alan20 · M

@midnightrose I can identify with that. And I think its healthy

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

If she came back as a satanist, said she wanted you back, & said she loved you...
what would you think about her & would you do her?

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@ChiefJustWalks I would start crying most likely, and then try to change her mind, whilst knowing I can't change nothing. Just like in the old days, eh?

BeefySenpie · M

Some people leave a profound impact on you. As long as you don’t put your life on hold musings are natural

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@BeefySenpie I don't put my life on hold for these things, thankfully. But it's not only musings either, it's... like I lost my soulmate.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@BeefySenpie That being said, I know that given enough time with that drama I would come to dislike her. I think these feelings are simply evidence that I left her at the right time.

SW-User

I don't think it's sad, if God wants you together, she'll be back

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@SW-User Amen

Mona86 · C

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Mona86 What are you saying no for?

Lilnonames · F

I wouldnt say ur a sad being. I say that mistake taught u something. And u never know it could happen

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@Lilnonames Yeah it taught me a lot. I remember the time she said she didnt know if she loved me anymore, I just walked home, completely destroyed, understanding what I needed to do. I regained her love, but a while later I realized what truly mattered to me. The moment she screamed "fuck god" I accepted that she wouldn't come to the same belief as me. That's when I started to change majorly. She liked the changes in me, but she didn't understand that it was part of us drifting apart...

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