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I’ve begun to wonder whether the search for ultimate purpose or meaning is, in itself, misguided. If there is no final, attainable meaning, then the desire to chase one may only lead to emptiness—an endless pursuit of something that can never truly be grasped.

So what is the meaning of life?


One common answer is that life’s meaning is to do good and improve the lives of others. That would suggest happiness as the ultimate goal. Yet all living things eventually die. If everything ends, does that also end its meaning? And if we were to live forever, would happiness alone become life’s meaning? I would certainly prefer eternal happiness over eternal suffering, but can a feeling, by itself, truly constitute meaning?

When we think of meaning, we often imagine it as an end goal. Stories and films frequently portray characters fighting evil or striving toward some greater good. In those stories, their struggles seem meaningful. But once the conflict is resolved, the meaning appears to conclude with it. If meaning can end, can it truly serve as life’s ultimate answer? Is life simply a struggle toward a better state?

From a Christian perspective, one might believe that life leads to eternal paradise—a place of everlasting happiness. But if paradise represents perfection, with nothing left to overcome or improve, does meaning cease to exist there? Some might say life’s meaning is to follow God’s will. But then another question arises: what is God’s purpose? If God has existed eternally and created everything, was it simply an act of will? And if so, does that action itself carry meaning?

The question “What is the meaning of life?” quickly becomes difficult to define. Attempting to answer it often leads us higher and higher through layers of belief and philosophy until we reach the very top of our understanding of existence—only to find that the question abruptly stops, unanswered, regardless of what we place at the top.

We can instead define meaning in shorter, emotionally driven ways, but doing so may avoid the deeper question rather than solve it. Meaning is often described as a reason to act that goes beyond temporary feelings. It is thought of as the reason to feel at all, the reason to believe, and the reason to continue living regardless of emotional circumstances.

Because of this, I have begun focusing less on what the meaning of life is and more on when and why we start searching for it. It seems that people most often question life’s meaning during periods of sadness, depression, or personal emptiness—when something, usually happiness, feels absent. When life feels fulfilling and joyful, the question of meaning rarely arises; it simply doesn’t feel necessary; it's not important.

This leads me to the conclusion that perhaps the search for life’s ultimate meaning is born out of suffering and confusion. Instead of providing clarity, it can sometimes deepen despair, pulling us further into an endless and possibly unanswerable spiral. The chase after meaning is therefore an evil concept; foolish, if you will.
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
This rings true for me. I spend countless hours in despair trying to analyze the point of life. In the cycling of my darkest hours, the questions of what I am doing here, what I am accomplishing, how pointless it all seems only drags me deeper into my dissatisfaction fueled by feelings of being lost, alone, and hopeless (and inadequate).

Perhaps that is evil reaching out to me and making me its victim. Sadly, I always answer the call of its pull and comply. Then, when the depression lifts and releases me, I do go back to being a happy idiot. That "chase" is foolish, but for some reason it is so tempting. I wish I could stop. I wonder if I could.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@MarkPaul I think you can if you think about the cause and effect. My perspective of it stems from our shared experience that the search for meaning only arises from negative emotions, and that good emotions remove the need for that search.

I often feel like I undervalue happiness, which then keeps me sad for longer, simply because happiness seems meaningless without an answer to the question of meaning to my life. For example: "Why should I feel happy? It's meaningless either way so i might as well dwell on it for longer".

Not remembering how little meaning of life actually matters when you're happy feels exactly like when you're depressed and can't remember any positive moments and like you'll never be happy again.

So the question instead turns into "What should I do to become happy again?", rather than questioning the meaning of life.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@MarkPaul The value of "the question" is inversely proportional to happiness if you were to chart it. However, the value of "the question" only seems to correlate with the value of happiness, and not be a cause for it. 🤔 trying to think of the best way to put it...

Of course if you found the answer to "the question" it'd all of a sudden be a strong cause for happiness, i bet, but I can't remember the last time I reached any good conclusion that made my life more meaningful or happier when toiling over it.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@MartinTheFirst The thing is, I wonder if we did find the answer if that would result in happiness? It's like you said originally, it most likely would lead to another question... and so on. The idea of trying to find the answer is what is so damnable because it's a never-ending search for an answer that won't really ever make a difference. In a rational sense, the solution is simple. Emotionally though, especially within the clutches of sadness or depression, it's not so easy (at least for me) to redirect my mind. It's worth working on because I believe you are right that it won't lead to finding meaning or happiness. It's a fool's errand and that is, I think, what makes it evil in its attempt to pull us away from God's will.