What do you think ?

I believe that you can get a spiritual experience if you end up in a relationship . At the start where everyone is happy I'm happy She's happy everything is going well .
Your spirit feels free .
Do you agree That's the start of the relationship.
Give or take.
After awhile reality kicks in . Arguments .
( Doing the thinking on your own . Is she leaving ? Will she leave ? She don't have much interest in me . She's going to leave for someone else . He's make her laugh more . All that thinking on your own)
Is that then where doubt creeps in .
You end up insecure . She ends up insecure . No talk .
Holding resentments . Passing remarks .
( That's the cycle then for a couple of years )
Break up Break up Break up .
haLeft very resentful . Left very bitter . Left very hurt .
Left very alone . Missing her . Thinking of her .
Still on your own .
The moral of the story through all of the lack of communication in relationships but isn't it true what your looking for isn't it at the start of the relationship where you got a spiritual awaking that you felt free inside you for once in all your life .
Isn't it the spiritual awaking you were looking for was the freedom from the thinking.
And also isn't it true that you know God exists when your in the relationship at the start cause you don't question the relationship.
I'm after sharing you this story .
Tell me what you think

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JollyRoger · 70-79, M

I think you have put much good thought into how "people" think. The one word that I find missing in your explanation and which (I feel) makes and breaks relationships is the word
"Selfishness". That word relates to our ego (those thoughts you describe about seeds of distrust). If we think of what we are missing by being committed to (only) one person then we are trying to control that person and when you try to control something then you are 'bending' it to your own Will. If you allow another person to 'be' then you will see them trust you: That trust is what engenders them to want to remain with you BECAUSE you do let them "BE" and live their life as they envision it.
A thought to remember: We enter relationships because we are searching for 'something' that we think will enhance our 'self'. We see that in the 'other' we are choosing and we hope they will show us how they attained that 'something' that we crave. NO person is 'complete'.... we all search to improve ourselves. On that basis the 'other' in our relationship has a craving to learn what we have to offer to them. It's 'symbiotic', it is good!
Bottom line: Let the 'other' person learn from you and 'become' what they want to be: Don't try to mold them into what you want them to be.

Kygirl · F

@JollyRoger

Great post