Is it unchristian to hate my Step Mother?

My Dad lives in Dubai because he doesn't like taxes and sometimes I have to call him late at night to get money. Anyway his new wife (who is 15 years younger than him😯😯😯) ALWAYS WANTS TO SPEAK TO ME WHEN I CALL UP😡😡😡.

I never want to talk to her because when my mum found out he'd been [i]rutting[/i] with his secretary (my step mum) it might have led to problems with her self esteem which might have led to her plastic surgery addiction....

... And....

.... She is going deaf and I always always always have to repeat EVERYTHING I EVER SAY TO HER. She was in a car accident which damaged her hearing and I [i]guess[/i] I'm glad she didn't die (I guess) but sometimes I wish the accident had made her totally deaf so I wouldn't even have to pretend to be pleasent to her on the phone. Sometimes I wish the accident had scarred her face because my dad prolly wouldn't have employed her and therefore he wouldn't have left my mum for her.

She is the only person in the world I don't like so is this unchristian?

Adstar · 56-60, M

Yes it is unchristian.. But we are human so loyalty to ones mother can see us hating on those who deem to have caused our mother hurt..

So as a christian in this situation we should pray to our LORD and acknowledge that out hate for our Step Mom is not good and against the LORDs will, And ask for Him to help the bad situation for your actual mother, for you, for your dad, and for all involved..

And thank the LORD for forgiving you through the Atonement of the LORD Jesus..

Then try to move on in life and when ever those hate feelings start to well up and we start to think about people with hate thoughts we should realize what we are doing and put a stop to it and pray to the LORD again..