Is it unchristian to hate my Step Mother?

My Dad lives in Dubai because he doesn't like taxes and sometimes I have to call him late at night to get money. Anyway his new wife (who is 15 years younger than him😯😯😯) ALWAYS WANTS TO SPEAK TO ME WHEN I CALL UP😡😡😡.

I never want to talk to her because when my mum found out he'd been [i]rutting[/i] with his secretary (my step mum) it might have led to problems with her self esteem which might have led to her plastic surgery addiction....

... And....

.... She is going deaf and I always always always have to repeat EVERYTHING I EVER SAY TO HER. She was in a car accident which damaged her hearing and I [i]guess[/i] I'm glad she didn't die (I guess) but sometimes I wish the accident had made her totally deaf so I wouldn't even have to pretend to be pleasent to her on the phone. Sometimes I wish the accident had scarred her face because my dad prolly wouldn't have employed her and therefore he wouldn't have left my mum for her.

She is the only person in the world I don't like so is this unchristian?

Zaphod42 · 46-50, M

Well, on the one hand Christians do hate better than than most, and anyone who doesn’t fit their little mold is fair game. And the more religious they are, they more hateful they seem to be.

On the other hand, to be Christian is supposed to as Christ like as possible, and Christ himself was a very loving and forgiving person in general.

So in answer to your question, it all depends on which version of “Christian” you want to be.

IndigoSavage · 22-25, F

@Gangstress but I didn't wish for that. I just wish she was the one who had to get plastic surgery (for cuts and burns) instead of my mum (because she got emotionally hurt)

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@IndigoSavage i think you have a lot of anger. Your dad is more than likely to blame for your mums emotions. After all it was her husband who cheated. I get the vilification of step mum.but Remember it takes two to do the tango