Is it unchristian to hate my Step Mother?

My Dad lives in Dubai because he doesn't like taxes and sometimes I have to call him late at night to get money. Anyway his new wife (who is 15 years younger than him😯😯😯) ALWAYS WANTS TO SPEAK TO ME WHEN I CALL UP😡😡😡.

I never want to talk to her because when my mum found out he'd been [i]rutting[/i] with his secretary (my step mum) it might have led to problems with her self esteem which might have led to her plastic surgery addiction....

... And....

.... She is going deaf and I always always always have to repeat EVERYTHING I EVER SAY TO HER. She was in a car accident which damaged her hearing and I [i]guess[/i] I'm glad she didn't die (I guess) but sometimes I wish the accident had made her totally deaf so I wouldn't even have to pretend to be pleasent to her on the phone. Sometimes I wish the accident had scarred her face because my dad prolly wouldn't have employed her and therefore he wouldn't have left my mum for her.

She is the only person in the world I don't like so is this unchristian?

in10RjFox · M

I don't see what role a religion plays here .. as its basic humanity. You can just accept her as your friend or sister for how you relate with one another is upto you.

What your dad did or mom did is actually none of your concern as you're not involved. From most of what you have said it looks like your mum has brought things upon herself. Obvious that she has never thought things out in a cool frame of mind.

But your future is yours.. and you are part of a family which has your dad's new wife too..

Also think what you achieve by remaining hostile with her. Also think what is she going to achieve by befriending you inspite of all your past deeds.

Bygones are bygones. Look forward into your future.