Can it be time to retire this facile Christian argument: You don't believe in god because you don't WANT to believe! [Spirituality & Religion]

Think about that for like A second.

Do you love you mother and father? Grandprents? Husband, wife?
Yeah, me too.
Can you bear the idea of never seeing them again?
Yeah, me neither.
So if i thought i would get to see them again after we die, why wouldn't you want to believe that? I certainly would.

So can we dispense with this puerile response to why atheists don't believe?

Thanks.