No message? [Spirituality & Religion]

If you pray for years and try to be a good person, do the right things, be kind, always forgive, and you pray for answers to your suffering but get no message, would you consider no message as still a message? Like no response is still a response and it can be a powerful one? Am I supposed to continue to wait? What if they reason there’s no answer to my suffering is because there is no message? No purpose? No reason?