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If someone dedicated a song to you, would you believe them if they sincerely had no romantic designs ?

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Yes. And it happened to me and it was such a delight and I believed them unconditionally.

Because I know I am worth it, I know I am extraordinarily :)
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Wanderingdisaster · M
@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON You truly are

So why say this ? :)
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
So a guy... not romantically connected... dedicated a song to you... oops, I mean your friend... and claims still no romantic interest???

Yeah, I'm suspicious. But then I'm like that. 🤷‍♀️
RosaMarie · 41-45, F
@sarabee1995 was it a long song?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@RosaMarie I don't know. It wasn't my story. 🤷‍♀️
RoaringLion · 51-55, M
bijouxbroussard, I would like to dedicate a song to yourself and all the wonderful citizens of ther SW community. It's by a band called Queen, you may know of it. It's called- "We are the Champions"!
@RoaringLion That’s awesome, and thank you. 😊
Rutterman · 46-50, M
Depends on the song, who dedicated it, and what they might have said in the dedication.

I have dedicated songs to people for whom I had no romantic designs and I think they understood that.
SW-User
Yeah. There is a song that reminds me a lot of my father who's gone. The lyrics are very nice & touching. It talks about missing someone you dearly love. So every time I listen to it, in my mind, I dedicate it to him.

There is one part that could be interpreted as romantic — which I just mentally block and un-hear.
SW-User
Yeah. I don't know if I am too naive or trusting, I seem to take people at face value.
Until I get close to them emotionally... then something happens.
It depends on other signs too, but just a song doesn't imply romantic feelings indeed. A guy on here every once in a while sings a song for everyone who replies to his offer and he dedicated several to me, but I never suspected any romantic feelings.
@NerdyPotato A good point (and I know of whom you speak).😊
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@NerdyPotato no, that's false, Scrof wants your pp.
ElRengo · 70-79, M
It would strongly deppend on whom, the known reason and the song.
Happened to me on some few ocasions, from friends whith whom we share a history of strong experiences. No romantic context then nor there.
Other situations MAY be ambiguous.
SW-User
It depends on the person, if it was one of my friends then yes, I tell my friends I love them - it’s completely platonic
SW-User
if they said they had no romantic designs and were sharing only as a friend, i'd have no choice but to believe them.

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eyeno · M
Hi ms. Bijoux,
Just sharing a song that someone dedicated to me many years ago....

[media=https://youtu.be/T2uKKmtjwR8]
@eyeno That’s lovely. 😊
Yep. You can love someone but not have romantic designs.
@Mamapolo2016 Yes. 😃
SW-User
Yup i do not associate song dedication to romance or feelings for another.
sciguy18 · M
Yes - barring evidence to the contrary.
@sciguy18 Too obvious ? 😄
[media=https://youtu.be/Jm-upHSP9KU]
sciguy18 · M
SW-User
Yes, I would. Not all songs have romantic flavor but it is nice to be thought of
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Yet to have a song dedicated to me for any good or bad reasons. 🤷🏻‍♂️
I’d not think too much bout it, if there’s no connection there.
SW-User
Kind of depends on the song I think
@SW-User Well, yes. 🤭
JestAJester · 31-35, M
"Alright who paid you and what do you want?"
RubySoo · 56-60, F
It would depend on the song content i guess!
ElRengo · 70-79, M
IMO, it may deppend on the kind of song.
Lilymoon · F
Yes. that's a great compliment if you ask me.
Depends on what the song is.
firefall · 61-69, M
No, I dont think I'd buy that
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Depends on the context, but I mean, I dedicated a Shinedown song for my best friend when he was struggling with coming out to his family.
@basilfawlty89 That’s a neat thing to do. 😊
Lostpoet · M
That would hurt my feelings if it didn't.
@Dino11 what changed in those 2 months?
Dino11 · M
Maybe..😇
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Yes, because I have written things for people just to do it.
@uncalled4 That’s even cooler.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@bijouxbroussard Yah, well I didn't say the music was good, though lol
For the most part, yeah
Bang5luts · M


 
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