Ya know, I feel like I might eventually begin to hate really women. Who knows

I don't know what you went through and I'm not dismissing it or you and actually I'm willing to listen and understand where all this is coming from. It might not be my experience but I don't think you're lying. Just know that as you have your experience, we have too and these generalizations I often see contradict each other and that's why people are having a hard time getting on your side. I mean for example this site is full of women who have been traumatized by men and the patriarchy in general and if someone gets on here and tells them "you have had it better than men this whole time" isn't it logical that they won't accept it? Because it's as if their trauma is being mocked.
I know men often feel that way, that they're being mocked for their suffering. That's also a result of the same system.
What I'm trying to get at is that for every woman (or person in general) out there dismissing your feelings, there is another who is willing to listen and help you. I hope you know that and that you will find them.