Ya know, I feel like I might eventually begin to hate really women. Who knows

Come on man…you’re stuck so deep in your own pity party. ’me this, me that’

You can’t even understand any of the conversation you’ve been addressed with because you’re not being open to understanding how others have suffered. Seems like you don’t want to even try to understand women and how they feel. Sad shame.

I hope it makes sense for you one day and you can stop being so clueless and bitter.

You won't so long as you recognize one thing: a single person doesn't speak for an entire gender. One you get that, you'll be golden.

Also, we get it. I still get mixed signals from a few ex girlfriends now and then, and once I learned to ignore them I chilled out.

I don't know what you went through and I'm not dismissing it or you and actually I'm willing to listen and understand where all this is coming from. It might not be my experience but I don't think you're lying. Just know that as you have your experience, we have too and these generalizations I often see contradict each other and that's why people are having a hard time getting on your side. I mean for example this site is full of women who have been traumatized by men and the patriarchy in general and if someone gets on here and tells them "you have had it better than men this whole time" isn't it logical that they won't accept it? Because it's as if their trauma is being mocked.
I know men often feel that way, that they're being mocked for their suffering. That's also a result of the same system.
What I'm trying to get at is that for every woman (or person in general) out there dismissing your feelings, there is another who is willing to listen and help you. I hope you know that and that you will find them.

I think it is just a phase you're going through. Apathy can tear into the fabric of who we are. It is painful but you're going to be okay.
I have experienced the same internalized conflicts as a result of trauma, and of lack of support.
You're traumatized Menas. That's what it is and what it should be called.

Dude you keep saying nobody cares about you or is your friend and that is bs. If that were the case nobody would be concerned about wtf you are posting. Unless you believe that friends should agree with everything you do and not say anything. Get off the Andrew Tate bs on Tictok and YouTube and find a healthier way to deal with your feelings regarding women. I get that you are deeply hurt by something. You've just become so aggressive towards people on here suddenly and your behavior is toxic. If I get blocked so be it, but people do care about you on here and I hope you are able to get to a better place.

Maybe dial back the 'hate' of any particular gender and try out just not liking most [i]everyone[/i] male OR female because a lot of people suck except a select handful we're lucky enough to stumble across in our lives.

Hi Menas we've been friends for a while and I think I know you enough to say you don't really mean that.
I'm sorry that you're going thru something. If you ever feel like talking I'm around.

i been there. I know that feeling. As hard as it is though, just remember not all people are the same.

If that is true you are eventually going to hurt yourself with that mindset as well.

why menas 😔

I can see that

to really hate women*

where is this coming from

At least if I stay in this website

What is a really woman?

Chill out, man

Mate, I know you had a raw deal and all and it was traumatizing, but you are a logical person and you know that hating an entire gender doesn't make sense, because it's a sweeping generalisation.

You’re making friends fast here.

Why would you?

Try and remember all women are not the same. I have had awful experiences with men.

Have you talked with a professional? I think it would help your feelings. I have and it helps.

@SW-User do you see all of the concern here. That should tell you something right.

It’s okay, we hate you too.