I Hate Women Who Abuse Men And Children

I got called to a women's refuge again the night before last. Two of the residents had been stabbed by one of the others in a fight. It was probably about drugs again, it usually is. The situation was so volatile we had to wait for the police to restrain some of the women before we could go in.

These are all women who claim to be fleeing from violent men but they are amongst the most violent people I've ever encountered. If their male partners actually did hit them, which I doubt, it was almost certainly in self-defence.

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Teddybear · M

I agree wholeheartedly!!!

Society has had it all along, for too, too long, that it is not "manly" for an abused man, to report the abuse to the authorities whatsoever!

We pacifist men are raised from the get go, to be "macho men", by sucking it up, to put up with it, to take it like a man, the abuse, any abuse directed, inflicted on us men, by the abusive, violent women. Be that mental, psychological, and or physical. It's not that we can't fight back because we are some kind of weakling, nor that we are too afraid of the woman. Noooo...we don't fight back with the woman because we good men are raised to not hit a woman at all, never!

As already mentioned here, many, many abuse incidents caused and initiated by the deranged woman, go unreported for this reason. And the abused men are mostly, too embarrassed that his homeboys will find out that he is being mistreated, so disrespectfully like that, by his own whimpy lady.

I am so glad that people's thinking in regards to this, is changing little by little. It's not changing fast enough though. For the abused man's sake, society's awareness of the abuse towards them by women, about the abuse men are subjected to by his own woman, of what men out up with, needs to pick up the pace to a faster pace. So that all the abused men can begin to feel more comfortable to report any and all abuse incidents done to them, as most abused women have always been reporting all lomg throughout time.

I once saw an advertisement, on an up and coming TV show on the subject of domestic violence, on women by men. So that made me think.."why is there always so many shows, programs, on domestic violence done, on harm caused to women by men, and no shows on women causing harm to men"! So that prompted me to write to, to emailed the show's producer to suggest, for them to include, a segment on "domestic violence on men by women"...and guess what...lol...i never received any response back whatsoever at all from anyone from that TV show..a so called (dr phil show)..! To which i was not even phased in any way by the lack of any answer to me on that...!!! Funny, and so weird...right!!!

suzie1960 · 61-69, F

@Teddybear Female perpetrated DV is very common but goes largely unnoticed. A experiment was done with a couple of actors in a public park whereby a woman appeared to be attacking a man. People just walked past, nobody, [b]including an off-duty police officer[/b], said or did anything to assist him, not even calling the police. The off-duty police officer later admitted he would have stepped in if the roles had been reversed.

Teddybear · M

@suzie1960 ...and that's so sad ...😶👎!
It's already bad enough that the man is always the one who gets arrested and taken for the night to jail. Causing undue, undeserved grief, stress, to the abused man, needlessly👎!

Mugin16 · 46-50, M

@suzie1960 Yes, I have watched that video too. It was very eye-opening for many people, especially for the actress herself!

Mamapolo2016 · F

May I ask in what capacity you were called to the shelter?

It’s quite true that domestic violence runs through society in veins like coal is found in veins underground.

The women you speak of, and their men and their children were raised in violence and live in violence. They are frequently in self-defense mode 24/7, which translates to ‘the best defense is a good offense.’

It’s not terribly likely (although not impossible) that their men are docile and pacifist. Odds are the violence is mutually inflicted.
As the desensitization to violence is passed down generation to generation it becomes unremarkable to both victim and perpetrator. [b][i]It’s how life is.[/i][/b]

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Mamapolo2016 · F

@Caroline259 I didn’t say exclusively male on female...I said at one time it was in my experience predominantly male on female.

Truth is it doesn’t matter which sex is committing the violence. It’s wrong across the boards, in both straight and same gender couples.

Have a good evening.

Caroline259 · 56-60, F

@Mamapolo2016 My experience differs, the majority of cases I attend involve female on male violence. I only get called to incidents involving serious injury so the ratio involving minor or no injuries might be different. All the independent studies have found DV to be roughly 50:50 with some finding slightly more female on male - partly due to different definitions.

The vast majority of incidents involving male victims of female attackers go unreported or unrecorded. Male victims frequently report being told "it's not a police matter" when they do try to report it. In some cases, the male victim is even arrested as the attacker. My own husband was a victim of DV at the hands of his former wife so I have a good understanding of the hurdles male victims face.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Caroline259 I see. As I said, I won’t argue with your experience. That would be arrogant.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Far more common than you think.
I tried several times to get my violent (now ex) wife/in to counselling/arrested/sectioned even.
Nobody wanted to know.
Had it not been for my next door neighbours phoning the police because they "heard a commotion" I'd have died on the living room floor having been beaten unconscious by her and three male friends !

Caroline259 · 56-60, F

@Picklebobble2 I've met that situation a few times. A woman will lie to male thugs that her partner has a abused her to get them to attack him on her behalf. The thugs like to call themselves "real men". Some of them post here to boast about their violent tendencies.

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