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SUPERVlXEN · F
I suspect the worst part will be that they can't even see why you feel like that, and that the lack in their respect of women happens to target you as a woman too. I'd have a hard time being friends with people who are opposing my basic human values.
Miram · 31-35, F
@SUPERVlXEN
Yes , this extends to all basic human values.
I remember having so much admiration for this person because I thought they understood my struggles as an exmuslim and why they are legitimate and need be discussed for the benefit of all the minority, not just me.
Until one time I saw them talking against another ex-muslim who was criticizing their muslim community where they are living.
And the point that really stuck with me was when they were saying they sympathize with good "ex-muslims'' like me who don't offend them I guess...sympathize being the keyword.
The fact that they acted like empathy was doing me a favor not acknowledging basic human rights made me realize how little they think of me. It is effing disgusting
Yes , this extends to all basic human values.
I remember having so much admiration for this person because I thought they understood my struggles as an exmuslim and why they are legitimate and need be discussed for the benefit of all the minority, not just me.
Until one time I saw them talking against another ex-muslim who was criticizing their muslim community where they are living.
And the point that really stuck with me was when they were saying they sympathize with good "ex-muslims'' like me who don't offend them I guess...sympathize being the keyword.
The fact that they acted like empathy was doing me a favor not acknowledging basic human rights made me realize how little they think of me. It is effing disgusting
Miram · 31-35, F
@SUPERVlXEN
They think of me even less than the person they were attacking. They think I am weak.
But in their head they are respecting me..
I fucking hate when people do that
They think of me even less than the person they were attacking. They think I am weak.
But in their head they are respecting me..
I fucking hate when people do that
SUPERVlXEN · F
@Miram
To me there seems to be several fuck ups in this person's ways of rationalizing. First of all, on a personal level, they seem to have mistaken empathizing for what's barely even tolerating, out of whatever motives that might be. It won't however be you as a woman, an ex-muslim, or the values you stand for. I'm sorry you have been mislead into a friendship with such a person. 🤗
To me there seems to be several fuck ups in this person's ways of rationalizing. First of all, on a personal level, they seem to have mistaken empathizing for what's barely even tolerating, out of whatever motives that might be. It won't however be you as a woman, an ex-muslim, or the values you stand for. I'm sorry you have been mislead into a friendship with such a person. 🤗