Are ya one of those people that have to be invited?
I hate that when theres a party going on or friends are going out to dinner but you weren't invited. You just happen to hear about it one way or the other. Sometimes someone will say "Oh you can go if you want to". No. Its not about wanting to go, its about wanting to be wanted. Wanting to be invited. Kind of hurts when you're left out like that. "Oh I can ask if its okay you go?" No that defeats the purpose. Don't mention me if he/she wasn't already thinking of me
when i was younger i used to be like that and want to feel included and want to be invited even if i did not want to go to said event. Now I look not to be invited to anything haha. I cant even be bothered to make excuses on why I cant attend something, would rather people just dont think of me at all. I like my small crowd of people I am around and thats it
@JestAJester sounds like you are on a good path. I think once you stop caring so much what others think and are content and happy with yourself, People will want to be around you.
@Torsten but it also repels people. Because I don't curb my language. I come off opinionated, even hateful sometimes not intentionally. I've noticed over the years I have a natural, unintentional ability to offend.
@JestAJester would you honestly want to be around those types of people that would disaprove that about you though? Best to avoid those easily offended and find like minded strong willed people
