just want some validation . THANKS

it might just be me but ever since i was a child and even now people around me and even strangers have a way of talking to me .im 26 years old . its like they talk to me like im slow or something and i just now learned that everybody is doing this only to me and i dont understand why . i know my comunication is bad but i graduated with honors and im book smart . i also know that im not family orientated and have a tough time knowing my emotions and ways to express them but that should not be an excuse for anybody to treat me in such a way . i have a hard time dealing with constructive critisim and dark sense of humor due to trauma and certain situations .i dont understand or know the difference. its always 2 ways i handel things and those are flight or fight . if someone takes my phone charger i instantly feel like its a set up or if someone takes my things i feel like its a set up and i know those are bad ways of thinking but my saftey and concernes are my responsibility . I learned a new word for today "CONDESCENSION"

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Dv8rs · 18-21, F

So do you believe people are being condescending to you, when they address you? Perhaps, if you broaden your horizons, and instead of handling everything as fight or flight, try understanding, and patience.

Dabelletree909 · 26-30

@Dv8rs i tried that a few times even before the flight or fight now im stuck in a situation i can not get out of .and even if i do listen and be patient it wont be for me it will be for their own good .

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

@Dabelletree909 If someone is stealing from you, it makes you feel vulnerable. It seems like if you know who it is, and ask them, they will deny it. You have to catch them in the act, or see them with the stolen item. It sucks, trusting seems like a vulnerability too. I have no advice, and I feel sorry that you have to put up with that, it's wrong. If you can correct that one issue, it may help the other issues, gook luck.

Dabelletree909 · 26-30

@Dv8rs thanks for reaching out .