just want some validation . THANKS

it might just be me but ever since i was a child and even now people around me and even strangers have a way of talking to me .im 26 years old . its like they talk to me like im slow or something and i just now learned that everybody is doing this only to me and i dont understand why . i know my comunication is bad but i graduated with honors and im book smart . i also know that im not family orientated and have a tough time knowing my emotions and ways to express them but that should not be an excuse for anybody to treat me in such a way . i have a hard time dealing with constructive critisim and dark sense of humor due to trauma and certain situations .i dont understand or know the difference. its always 2 ways i handel things and those are flight or fight . if someone takes my phone charger i instantly feel like its a set up or if someone takes my things i feel like its a set up and i know those are bad ways of thinking but my saftey and concernes are my responsibility . I learned a new word for today "CONDESCENSION"

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Nitedoc · 51-55, M

Speak very intelligently to them all and the condescending will soon stop.

Dabelletree909 · 26-30

@Nitedoc why should i have to prove myself to someone that doesnt even care if i live or die and i have tried that and that didnt end well . they all started talking in ways wich i didnt understand and when i asked what it meant at that time they all went back to treating me like so.

Nitedoc · 51-55, M

@Dabelletree909 "You didn't understand"? You said you were intelligent and well educated. Are you a mental match for the average Joe on the street?

Nitedoc · 51-55, M

@Nitedoc Where were you educated? What type of schools? How far did you get?

Dabelletree909 · 26-30

@Nitedoc a litlle but but i dont know everyone . because people have different up bringings .i know alot of people who are smart and have no common since.it so simple .these is the same thing they said to me so yeahhh it doesnt matter if i was actually smart or the average joe either way i still didnt understand and im pretty sure if you was around you wouldnt either . just know that other people have asked the samething .

Nitedoc · 51-55, M

@Dabelletree909 Okay. Perhaps I don't have a good answer for you. I wish you well.