It's all bullshit. And then you learn the truth.

I am so sorry you have experienced that, but you are right about most of your observations. I think there are so many people that are in unfulfilled relationships.
I see the ones you are referring to and I wonder if their significant other knows, which if they do, in my opinion, it is fine to flirt if the third party also knows about the SO.

Here is where my heart is though, if all parties are not knowlegeable as to the actions then in the end someone's going to get hurt. My heart does go out to the SO's of whomever. I think some folks think the internet flirting, sexting, and beyond hurts no one because they aren't physically touching another person (while cybering) but I read not long ago a study where they asked individuals their views on what constitutes cheating. They had broken the age categories into those 18 to 25... 26 to 60.... and 60 plus..... The under 25 was more strongly attached to the physical side as being wrong and considered cheating, but the other groups considered emotional cheating equal to or more detrimental to their relationships (we are talking 68% of the respondents) than physical betrayal. It went further and listed "intimate picture exchange" and greater than 70% (cannot remember the exact number) in those upper age groups considered that grounds for ending a relationship based on infidelity. There was amother article that sought to answer whether the internet is the death of monogamy and many that were interviewed said no, it was the persons behind the screen and their belief they wouldn't get caught. (Not their words but mine based on what I read.)

I tell you this because I want you to have hope that there is indeed a man out there that feels similar and is looking for you too. Just avoid the ones that say they are married and still looking.

Hi Lissa, I've wondered where you've been. I'm sorry that this is the post that I find you through.
Just in case you have any doubts, I know that you are an awesome person.
Life has a habit of knocking us down as a means to test our resiliency.

SW women are all, big time players and attention starved narcs, Mrs(to be) Lissa and guys are out to show Dk. Thats about it.

Or men are posing as women, also, some women are just out to trick you into sending money, some are young kids playing around, there's all sorts Lissa, don't worry, it's not just you.
It's true what you say that nobody wants a monogomous relationship any more, nowadays it's all down to rapid fire, get in, get out and leg it. I don't understand that way of loving, to me it's deceit based on lies, if that's all that's left, count me out!

There was no honesty and fidelity in the past. It’s not just today. There was no internet when I was young, so apart from making it easier to cheat and find s3x online, there was just as much BS and men cheating as they do now. I say men because back then it was mainly men, but now it seems the women of today act more like men when it comes to one night stands (hook ups) and cheating and lying.

Humans are lustful beasts until we learn to master our emotions and align with our hearts.

Make the best of your day with those you love.

There are still good people around. You just have to look hard and go slow to really get a sense of who they are.

Do you at all think its maybe the type you are attracted to ?

Aww Lissa. Monogamy and fidelity still exist.

Yes i get you!
Im single,not really hoping or expecting to "meet someone"on here,but i do find it odd that people seem to not be who or what they are.
You can just tell someone isnt really an 18 year old body builder who wants free sex 24/7,etc.

Everyone I met with from EP was a constant bust. Why the hell would I want that from here? I totally understand how you feel. Who knows, maybe they are phony bots of some kind. Almost enough to scare you

True, I don’t even care for men but they tried hard to get close to me only to hate my guts and ghost me. They were just lying all along. If they liked me they would have stayed friends.

That's why I love 'politics' more than 'people'. If you wanna play games, play games atleast with a Label. No surprising elements of a straight turning a bi and all.

Yes it seems to be the same offline and online common denominator people suck

I never give up hope in my never ending quest for hairpie

Anyone who would cheat on you has to be crazy

Been lied to online many times

I have found the same. Hugs

Stop crashing yer suv

Well good luck with that

I'm not changing how I am just to fit how others have been.
I believe there's still good people in this world and refuse to let the negatives be what I remember most.