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The minute you start to trust someone you're doomed.

Yay or nay?
NewBeginnings7790 · 36-40, F
Usually, but I’d like to still believe not everyone is shit
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I always wanted to believe that too. Maybe you will find a reason not to believe it. @NewBeginnings7790
JestAJester · 26-30, M
No. Trust comes in increments. Theres always inherent risk, thats the price you pay for something or someone special.

As time passes, that trust goes up or down depending on the people. I might trust you in my home one day and some time later i might learn to trust you driving my car or keeping precious secrets.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I used to. I don't anymore. @JestAJester
JestAJester · 26-30, M
@LadyBronte well i have a role model so to speak. My dad. But hes the opposite of a role model. Hes what i dont want to become. So bitter, always looking at the negatives. He is not a happy man and hasnt been for many many years. I dont want to become that. Im trying to stay hopeful and optimistic, if i grt burned along the way so be it
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Good for you. I wish you luck. @JestAJester
cycleman · 56-60, M
Nay, I am going to trust without any expectations in return.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@cycleman That may be the best way. But that is not for me.
Buildingadoor · 26-30, F
@cycleman hi may I please have your bank account information and your debit card pin number? 👀
Redstar · 31-35, M
Pretty true. With all the billions of people on the planet, I think... or I hope there's someone out there that I can truly trust.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Redstar No. I'm done with all that. The last one broke every ounce of trust I could have had for anyone.
Redstar · 31-35, M
@LadyBronte Well that fucking sucks but I can understand.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Redstar It does suck.
ElRengo · 61-69, M
Nay.
You are near to doomed the minute you find reasons to drop such trust.
ElRengo · 61-69, M
@LadyBronte
True.
To make all rooted in the individual inner is an also individual pathology, so yes, sometimes, some people.
Theorizing that always and for all of us all what there exists (or what counts) is inner and the stars are fully contained in the lens of the telescope, that is a cultural / social pathology of thought.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@ElRengo ainteresting waybto look at it. But yes, what really counts is our inner.
ElRengo · 61-69, M
@LadyBronte
A paradox, my inner says otherwise 🤣
KatyO83 · 36-40, F
Well not necessarily but then you give a part of yourself that'll hurt if it is later lost.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@KatyO83 Yep. So we get to a point where thw risk becomes greater than the hope for reward.
No, it all depends on the person you trust. I could use a bit more of trust in my life, honestly.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Same. But I find I am fresh out of trust. @CrazyMusicLover
smiler2012 · 56-60, M
no i would say not you have to trust sometime but always keeping your suspicious side keen 😝[ladybronte]
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@smiler2012 I think you can get to a point where you don't have to trust anyone. You simply have to be more self reliant and less willing to be hurt. 🤷‍♀️
Mindful1 · 51-55, F
The lesson: no one is perfect and neither are we. Anyone who is trying too hard should be suspect
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Mindful1 Yep. Anyone who seems too good to be true...usually is.
Yay. Once you trust someone you’re at close risk to become hurt and exploited.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Seems to be that way. @ChangeYourDestiny
Cowboybob · M
That’s why I don’t trust anyone!
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Cowboybob Same here.
Cowboybob · M
@LadyBronte it’s easy online
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Easy to trust? Easy to get burned? Or easy to not need anyone? @Cowboybob
Gaiia · F
Yeah it's always a risk. But it's nice opening up to the right people
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Gaiia I wish I knew what it was like to have been able to find and trust the right person at least once.
Bang5luts · M
Nope, the moment they prove they aren't worthy of my trust
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TheCaterpillar · 41-45, F
Nay not everyone is unworthy of trust
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@TheCaterpillar I hope there are some out there even if i was not destined to meet any.
Dino11 · M
No, never. I couldn't live like that.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Dino11 I don't know that amyone wants to. But sadly, it does happen.
lonelyandyb · 31-35, M
I’m probably doomed either way🤷
Unlearn · 36-40, M
It's always a gamble...
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Unlearn Each of us has to decide when that gamble is too big.
You trust yourself.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@FlowersNButterflies That is the only way.
Why would you do that? ;-)
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Stillwaiting Good question. 😄 I won't. Haha.
The minute you recognize you have grown old, anger gets the better of you, and you have to take guidance in yourself, how I do heal thyself, even though it is them who hurt me... that kind?
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@thewindupbirdchronicles Just a question. Interpretation open.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Mellowgirl Same.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Ingwe Agree.
Depends on who that someone is
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
Fair enough. @YippeeKiYaymf

 
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