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🌹 A Real Talk For Women 🌹

Sometimes the heart falls faster than the mind can think. Many women fall for men online — sweet words, late-night chats, promises that sound like forever. But behind the screen, you don’t always know the truth. Not every man who says “I love you” has love in his heart.

And let’s be real — there are things we do knowing deep down it’s not right. But the “feel-good” moment is powerful, almost addictive. The danger is, what feels good for a short while can cost you peace, dignity, trust, and even your future.

💔 What feels good can leave scars.
💡 What feels hard (walking away, saying no, choosing better) can save you.

Ladies, value yourself enough to pause, to question, to test the fruit before you eat it. Not everything sweet is safe. Remember — a man worth your time will never push you into a place where you feel guilty, broken, or ashamed.

✨ Protect your heart. Protect your worth. Choose what builds you, not what breaks you.
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xbandoleerx · 56-60, M
Mostly when women ruin it, they pin the blame on men
Logybear50 · 46-50, F
Yah and that usually happens when the woman don't want to play along anymore and tries to get serious 😳
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@Logybear50
So this is a serious discussion?
Why is friendship such a difficult topic between men and women?
Why is it that women and men can't do things together without feeling, "It has to go somewhere. There has to be 'love' at the end of it or it ends here?"

Note: I'm 75 and I would definitely not want to live alone for the rest of my life.
I am retired, I have a pension, I'm not looking for a home or for someone to physically care for me - I will share the caring by caring for someone emotionally - and if they need more care than I can physically give them - why can't I still be their friend and visit them in a nursing home? Do you REALLY have to live together 24 hours a day?
GET REAL: The human soul needs friendship and inter-gender friendship is much nicer than just having a 'friend-friend'.
I know several of my friends who do this (be friends, but live apart) - so why are yiou folks on here unable to let go of the 'vows for life' thing?
If there's sex.... then let there be sex.... but don't make that the only basis of your friendship - be emotionally supportive and NICE to each other (and have other friends too if that's what makes it EVEN. We only go through this life once!