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I can't vote because there's no choice for "It doesn't matter".
I usually brush my teeth first then wash my face. Why is your husband privy to what you do in the bathroom? That may be the real problem.
I usually brush my teeth first then wash my face. Why is your husband privy to what you do in the bathroom? That may be the real problem.
skybubble20 路 56-60, F
@notyouraveragedummy He鈥檚 mild OCD and I learned to be more patient.馃ス
@skybubble20 I didn't want to say this because I don't know you or him, but his opinion of your hygiene habits sounded too much like an early step at control. It begins with silly little things that don't really matter, then builds from there. Keep yourself aware!
skybubble20 路 56-60, F
@notyouraveragedummy thank you I know it鈥檚 better to be cautious. Over the years I learned his type of thinking and I had to let him know his common sense is not right sometimes.
I put salt when I boil pasta for him and he was mad and I had to show him cooking directions, if he doesn鈥檛 like salt I won鈥檛 using it anymore but it suggests for using salt for better pasta, after that he learned to accept general cooking method.
Nobody can cook for him before but he enjoys my cooking now.
Everyone can be stubborn and I adopted more flexibility and trying to show him there are many ways to do something.
I put salt when I boil pasta for him and he was mad and I had to show him cooking directions, if he doesn鈥檛 like salt I won鈥檛 using it anymore but it suggests for using salt for better pasta, after that he learned to accept general cooking method.
Nobody can cook for him before but he enjoys my cooking now.
Everyone can be stubborn and I adopted more flexibility and trying to show him there are many ways to do something.
@skybubble20 OK. As long as you're not the only one adopting flexibility. Best to you!