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NoThanksLeon · M
Judgements keep us from making mistakes.
Umile · 41-45, F
@NoThanksLeon Truth.

SW-User
@NoThanksLeon how?
NoThanksLeon · M
@SW-User If I judge someone to be a user or abuser, then I avoid them and don't get used or abused.
If I am nonjudgmental and give a user or abuser access to me, just to say I am not judgmental, then I get used and abused.
If I am nonjudgmental and give a user or abuser access to me, just to say I am not judgmental, then I get used and abused.

SW-User
@NoThanksLeon what if your judgement is wrong?
NoThanksLeon · M
@SW-User I'm still unabused.