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This is for the men. What's the biggest red flag in a relationship for you?

For me, it's dating a single mother. I'm not gonna be a sucker or a simp to even be in that situation. Not my child, not my problem.
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WhateverWorks · 36-40
🤷🏻‍♀️ Being a single parent isn’t a ‘red flag’ (i’m not sure you understand what ‘red flag’ means), but it can be a no-go, sure. Not everyone is cut out to be a stepparent. It’s good for people to recognize that about themselves. It’s kinda sad you think people who are comfortable being stepdads are ‘simps’ and suckers though.

Anywho.. back to your original question.. I remember my fiancé, and I having a funny conversation about how awful the dating scene is. I remember him saying (aside from the usual things like psychologically unstable), his red flags were non-monogamy-curious, very insecure, being at war with their family, shitty communication skills, and when their finances were a mess.