This is for the men. What's the biggest red flag in a relationship for you?

For me, it's dating a single mother. I'm not gonna be a sucker or a simp to even be in that situation. Not my child, not my problem.

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BackyardShaman · 61-69, M

I wouldn’t assume problems with a single mom but generally an obvious user is a red flag.

fishescycle · 26-30

@BackyardShaman she makes poor life decisions. She's brought a kid into sn unstable environment. She couldn't make it work with a guy she deemed worthy to bring a life into the world with. If the birth was just an accident then that's even worse. She's willing to potentially expose her kid to strange men. The list goes on.

They're target practice for easy lays but never to stay; sell them a dream but never buy into their nightmare (of their own doing). Leave them where they lay - which is with their legs up in the air, just like their life's trajectory more often than not.

[b]Widows of worthiness are maybe an exception.[/b] However they best have a death certificate. No baby daddy drama. The rest can get fucked. Literally. But no commitment. OP sees thru the BS and has standards.