This is for the men. What's the biggest red flag in a relationship for you?

@AnonymousJSS Exactly! I'm getting all the smoke because of my choice. 🤣

@xSiFiGamer2016x no you’re getting the fire because you labeled all single mothers the same way with a hateful and judgmental attitude. Otherwise you would not get these types of comments.

@BackyardShaman I can't turn back the clock now. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, some can handle and some can't. I have a valid reason, but it doesn't mean I hate the things I said. I never said I did, and that's what a lot of people are confused on. And if some get so offended or whatever, they could've moved elsewhere.

@xSiFiGamer2016x just to be clear ...it's about YOUR CHOICE ?

and thats fair . We all have choices .

The thing is, you called it a red flag .
You're using that terminology wrong .

What you meant is 'deal breaker'. A 'red flag ' is a term used for people with dangerous traits, usually manipulative and controlling, but not always .

Equating every single mother as a red flag is a broad spectrum insult. You never even considered some of these womens partners might have died from illness .
You've basically just shat on people, some who are already hurting and doing it tough.

Maybe [i]think [/i] before you voice an opinion ?

I mean, we are all entitled to our preferences .
And I get that some young gamer guy isn't in a position to be a responsible adult to a child ....so it's fair .

But you've just blurted out and implied that all single mothers are dangerous manipulative creeps .

Wtf dude?🤷

@OogieBoogie Where have I said that all single mothers are dangerous, manipulative creeps? Nowhere. Have you thought about that before you typed that in?

And gaming while being a father is totally fair. I have a few people I talk to who are fathers, and a few brothers too, that play video games and taking good care of their child. So what's your point?

Also, "red flag" is about a warning or danger, so how did I put it loosely? 🤔

Last, opinions are opinions. But here's the thing, you didn't like them. Cool. Can't help with anyone's feelings. It's up to them.

@OogieBoogie I have issues? Lol you did all the labeling to think it concludes what I am, but do you REALLY think so? I never said they're the bad ones, I simply avoid them. If you read what others said and what I said after, I specifically said not all men are what I don't want to be and not all single mothers are like this. And I find it funny when it all goes down to a simple question even you couldn't answer. I gave my answer to my own question, and let people say it. And I said "This is for the men." Are you one? 🤔

Telling me I can't read, but you didn't look at all of them. 🤨

@xSiFiGamer2016x open forum ....anyone can answer .
Can't believe you thought you could trash women and NOT have women answer?😆

And I did read . I read everything here .

And what you fail to notice is ...people were less interested in your question coz you had such a crappy answer yourself ...
... And that didn't raise any inner thoughts ?
Any ....inner questions?
No self reflection ?

You've had SO MANY replies commenting on your...let's call it 'arrogance' , and you're still blind to it!?

Ahh, whatever...you can lead a horse to water 🙄

Don't worry dude ....in about 5 ish years you may find a way out of your 'idealism' and realise the world is full of compromise, beauty where you least expect it , and that there's always the exception to the rule and that making general assumptions of whole swathes of people is pretty stupid .

But ...yeah...go for it .
Dig those toes in, turn a blind eye and stand your ground !
That's how we move forward ...we ignore what people all around us are telling us 😆

Wow dude....just wow .🙄

@OogieBoogie How was I trashing women? Lol if I were to ask a question, for women, it would've been completely different. I asked men because there are some things I can talk to them about while I've already learned things coming up to adulthood. Men can relate to one another, not like you can. Maybe you don't see what I see, but it's whatever. I love women, so where's the trashing and hatred? 🤷🏾‍♂️

And if you thought I had a crappy answer, then you shouldn't have replied? It's easy to ignore, yet you're still here replying to everything I say. I mean, you did say to ignore people around us that are telling us stuff and to move forward.

But you're still here. Contradicts everything there.

And at the end of the day, we're all on this website for something. I say what I want, you say what you want, we agree and/or disagree, etc. If you don't like the things I say, fine. Not really my problem. ✌️

@xSiFiGamer2016x contradict?

I'll say 🙄. Now you're even trying to reword my own words.

Then you tell me that I shouldn't reply...then you tell me I can say what I want .

Make up your mind .🤷

You are right about one thing though....I will ignore you from now on 👍

@OogieBoogie You said you can ignore me, but you just replied. 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣