This is for the men. What's the biggest red flag in a relationship for you?

@CrazyMusicLover That's a red flag to me. You might not call it, but I definitely do. Still, not the route I'm going for.

@xSiFiGamer2016x To me a red flag is a sign of danger, inconvenience, etc.. That means the person might or might not pose some risks. If you flat out refuse to date someone with kids then there's no might or might not. You just won't do that no matter what.

@CrazyMusicLover And some people basically say that I'm stupid to not follow my own preference. 🤦🏾‍♂️

@xSiFiGamer2016x I don’t think you’re being judged harshly because of your preferences. You’re being judged harshly because you said people who are comfortable being stepparents are suckers and simps then proceeded to say a bunch of nasty things about single mothers throughout this thread, which confirmed their criticism of you.

@WhateverWorks I can see that, but it's like they assumed I was referring to all of them. They do have a choice, that's fine. I'm saying [b]I'M[/b] not gonna be one.

@xSiFiGamer2016x not sure what you expected when you say single mothers are blahblah, instead of ‘some single mothers’

@WhateverWorks I wasn't really expecting anything, I was just asking men about the red flags they see to avoid in a relationship. But damn, hell of a lot of reactions coming from a question like this.