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This is for the men. What's the biggest red flag in a relationship for you?

For me, it's dating a single mother. I'm not gonna be a sucker or a simp to even be in that situation. Not my child, not my problem.
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Not all single mothers are in it for the trap, more like a very small percentage are. Most single mothers are extremely lonely and could use companionship past their children, your attitude is extremely shallow and selfish. Plus you could very well become a very postitive role model for their children and teach them many things in life.
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@NativePortlander1970 all those single mothers who husbands died in terrible situations, were abused, beaten, cheated on etc etc

They’re all money grabbers though apparently
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@NativePortlander1970 At the end of the day, they're not my children. Sure, there are a lot of single mothers, but I wouldn't be able to buy them stuff. God forbid me marrying one and grew some attachment to her children, divorce happens means I'd be upset. That's one of many reasons why I'm not dating one. I'd rather start a family with her, because I'd know that the child is mine.
@GLITTER Apparently, morons like this basement dweller's mother must be one of the ones he describes.
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@NativePortlander1970 At least I have a mother, alive and well. Quit projecting. 🤡👌
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@xSiFiGamer2016x Yeah you’re a bellend lol
@xSiFiGamer2016x I'll put it to you this way, their children will definitely be your harshest critic, and if you go in with the right attitude, they could become some of your closest friends going into adulthood, I am speaking from experience from both ends.
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@GLITTER I might as well be. 🤣
@xSiFiGamer2016x My mother is alive and I do not give two shits whether she is well or not.
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@NativePortlander1970 But that's [b]YOUR[/b] experience. Doesn't mean it can be for everyone's, including me. Everyone's different.
xSiFiGamer2016x · 22-25, M
@NativePortlander1970 Too bad. 🤷🏾‍♂️
fishescycle · 26-30
@NativePortlander1970 how does it make any sense that his mom's a single mother. Where's the logic?

I come from a two parent household and i fully subscribe to his philosophy. I'd never take a single mother seriously but guys with less options clearly do because they're successfully preying on some demographics.