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Spectre128 · 51-55, M
Erm you need to know this, when it's over but a boy isn't brave enough to end it, they'll often behave in a way to make the other party end things, then they don't have to do the break up deed and it can all be the other person's fault .
This relationship is not healthy for either of you and the longer you stay together the more it will hurt both of you.
Each of you needs to do some therapy and some growing up - separately.
When someone is rude, even if it's "disguised" as humour, it usually means they are irritated or annoyed about something in your behaviour. If you care about the relationship, it's best to ask and get the issue sorted out.
But if they are chronically rude to everyone, then their anger issues are likely to be too deep to deal with.
Only they can cure themselves - and only if they want to.
Some people use anger to manipulate others; some use it as a defence to keep others at a distance or to get rid of them.
Helping may seem like a loving thing to do - but it tends to backfire, unless someone actually asks for specific help of some sort (and it doesn't cost you to give it).
You're worth far more than the rotten way he's been treating you.
It's far better to be single and wait (or search) for someone who will like you as much as you like them.
Each of you needs to do some therapy and some growing up - separately.
When someone is rude, even if it's "disguised" as humour, it usually means they are irritated or annoyed about something in your behaviour. If you care about the relationship, it's best to ask and get the issue sorted out.
But if they are chronically rude to everyone, then their anger issues are likely to be too deep to deal with.
Only they can cure themselves - and only if they want to.
Some people use anger to manipulate others; some use it as a defence to keep others at a distance or to get rid of them.
Helping may seem like a loving thing to do - but it tends to backfire, unless someone actually asks for specific help of some sort (and it doesn't cost you to give it).
You're worth far more than the rotten way he's been treating you.
It's far better to be single and wait (or search) for someone who will like you as much as you like them.
Ellaaarrer · 22-25, F
@hartfire honestly i always thought abt this but for some reason i cant do it, i really am attached to him and idk how to stop being
@Ellaaarrer
Do you feel uncomfortable being alone in your own company?
Do you fear not having a companion and someone to love you?
Losing someone we love beings grief. Yes, it hurts, but it's like a huge storm or maybe a season of winter. It does pass.
As it passes, wisdom grows, and it becomes possible to attract a more functional and loving man, someone with whom you can experience mutual respect, trust and love.
Learning to enjoy being alone means things like looking after your health, spending time with friends, and having hobbies and interests you love.
If you still find it impossible to make the break, consider looking at an online list of traits [c=003BB2][u]Am-I-Co-Dependent-Bro-4002.pdf[/u][/c].
See how many tendencies match your general reactions.
If it matches, you could try going to six meetings in your local area and see if it works for you.
It's free and run by volunteers.
It's possible to get lots of support from people like you who understand exactly what you're going through - and at your own pace.
Do you feel uncomfortable being alone in your own company?
Do you fear not having a companion and someone to love you?
Losing someone we love beings grief. Yes, it hurts, but it's like a huge storm or maybe a season of winter. It does pass.
As it passes, wisdom grows, and it becomes possible to attract a more functional and loving man, someone with whom you can experience mutual respect, trust and love.
Learning to enjoy being alone means things like looking after your health, spending time with friends, and having hobbies and interests you love.
If you still find it impossible to make the break, consider looking at an online list of traits [c=003BB2][u]Am-I-Co-Dependent-Bro-4002.pdf[/u][/c].
See how many tendencies match your general reactions.
If it matches, you could try going to six meetings in your local area and see if it works for you.
It's free and run by volunteers.
It's possible to get lots of support from people like you who understand exactly what you're going through - and at your own pace.
NotSureAboutMyUserName · 31-35, M
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Ellaaarrer · 22-25, F
@NotSureAboutMyUserName thats true but hes not a touchy person, like at all
Ellaaarrer · 22-25, F
@bijouxbroussard i know it doesn’t but i dont want to stop being his friend either
bijouxbroussard · F
@Ellaaarrer Ultimately it’s your decision, of course. He may eventually make you angry enough to let go and save yourself. Or you may need counseling to understand that you deserve better. The fact that you’re asking here indicates you can see that something isn’t quite right.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
He's playing with your feelings and leaving you constantly guilty and confused,never knowing where you have him [i]if[/i] you have him at all. That's a manipulation method.
He's the red flag. There's nothing g to gain from him but his 0.000000001% affection and girl, that's not near enough.
Be with someone who's crazy about holding you tight, who shows that you can rely on them, that they're not going anywhere and that loving you is a privilege. Anything less is just confused boys who needs therapy.
He's the red flag. There's nothing g to gain from him but his 0.000000001% affection and girl, that's not near enough.
Be with someone who's crazy about holding you tight, who shows that you can rely on them, that they're not going anywhere and that loving you is a privilege. Anything less is just confused boys who needs therapy.
Theyitis · 36-40, M
It’s a cute story. He might change his mind or he might not. You might be able to put up with his moodiness or you might not. At this point it looks to me like you probably know what’s likely to happen more than we do, so just do whatever you think is going to make you happy.
Greyjedi · M
You at least are a red flag. You should not like boys. That’s called stuff like pedophilia.
Greyjedi · M
Yes someone who lies about who they are is 🚩 in any relationship
babyboy42 · 41-45, M
hi wanna chat send me massge in my inboxs please