Victim blaming is real

Why do people always blame the victim for staying with abuser like it's already hard to leave, I wish it was more support. I left by luck. I just want to know how is the victim is dumb and crazy for staying, but never the abuser get call names.

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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

Tbh I do take my responsibility for staying with someone who treated me like crap. I knew better and I had to build the strength through pain. But I let them write all the rules and obeyed. There’s nobody around to blame me, I realized why life was lousy and was able to change it.

fishescycle · 26-30

@AlchemyFox is it April 1st? A eoman with a modicum of logic and accountability - wouldn't be shocked if it's an alt rsms avvount.

would be edifying to know what some of these rules were the ex made (without the melodtamativ exaggerations that women are prone to in order to gatner sympathy).