Victim blaming is real

Why do people always blame the victim for staying with abuser like it's already hard to leave, I wish it was more support. I left by luck. I just want to know how is the victim is dumb and crazy for staying, but never the abuser get call names.

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AmericanaChick · 22-25, F

Honestly, I used to have that attitude because I was never in an abusive relationship. I didn't know what it was really like until I learned about it from people who were in that position.
So I'm guessing for most people who victim-blame, it's honest ignorance.